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Old Oct 7, 2009, 12:31 PM
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The woman rights activist in me is screaming

No one (apparently) sees a problem in that this guy "made" his wife move out of the marital residence and then "allowed" her to return? Last I heard we were allowed to work and handle money and vote, too.

I'm not excusing her cheating but I can see a conflict here.

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marriag...ml#post2018732

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Old Oct 7, 2009, 12:47 PM   #2  
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wow. i don't even know what more to say to that one.
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Old Oct 7, 2009, 12:57 PM   #3  
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Yeah I read that to Judy. If I told my wife that I was making her leave she would flip me the bird and go on with her day. If she did decide to leave on her own you better believe she will come back whenever she wanted.
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Man say go.

Man say come.

-grunt-

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Man say go.

Man say come.

-grunt-

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On the floor!
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"She says that I am the perfect match for her but on the other hand misses her indepedance"

No wonder that. Maybe she should "ask" to be treated with the same respect this owner of several companies affords himself.
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Surprised someone didn't say "Me Tarzan, you Jane!"
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my fiance told me she wanted to eat somewhere she had never been before, I took her to the kitchen
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Grrr. Not you Chuck, the OP of that thread.

If my husband told me to leave it would be a case of looks actually killing. No way, not going to happen.

So the wife made a mistake, we can all agree that it was a whopper and yes, she should be sorry if she wants to save her marriage, and from the sound of things she is sorry, although not sorry enough for him.

What is she supposed to do, grovel at his feet, beg his forgiveness, offer up her body as a sacrifice to prove that she's faithful and loves him? Come on! this is 2009, not 1809! Ooh, make her wear the scarlet letter A! Yes, let's go backwards, not forwards. Just shoot me if that happens, I'll be killed within minutes anyway with my big mouth.

I can't believe that some people still think they have the right to boss around someone else. If i were her then her hubby would have gotten a swift kick in the arse, a suitcase in one hand and me pointing to the door. If he wants to be alone there are plenty of hotels that can offer that for him.

Grrr.
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actually, i kind of got the impression that that was exactly what he wanted...

i agree with you 100%
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