The NC Calendar II

classicrocker · May 29, 2008, 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by zooropa1985

well folks i went out and bought an electric guitar, ive never played one b4 so im gonna fill this time by learning how to play like a pro

You should have got a drum set, the best way to release anger within music is banging on dose drums

hjpan · Jul 25, 2008, 09:58 AM

I just want to show to my ex that I will be successful and if she had not dumped me, she would've been standing right next to me, not around me.

ISneezeFunny · Jul 25, 2008, 12:41 PM

yeah...and she'll see that...as long as you do it for yourself, not for her.

bigbird213 · Jul 27, 2008, 05:14 AM

As far as the dating issue goes, I think as long as your thinking about your ex and still being sad about them yo uaren't ready to be dating anyone else yet. You don't want to rush into someone and end up worse off in a few months than you are now. I know people who tried that, then when the rebound ends, you find yourself thinking about your original ex and feeling worse than you did. Plus, you might regret the rebound....

pwtnu4 · Jul 27, 2008, 07:34 AM

man i really really really hate dreams sometimes...i literally dreamed about my ex the entire night...i know that cuz i woke up a few times and remembered my dreams vividly, i thought i was getting much better and now i feel like crap all over again...its been 13 days of no contact and i plan on sticking with it still though, arggghhh

jiltedgirl · Jul 27, 2008, 06:43 PM

I met up with my ex this weekend. It was wierd to say the least. I was excited to see him and see how he was doing, but something was off. I think it's the realization that we won't be anything more for each other? I'm glad I got to see him though.

PsYcHoSiS · Jul 28, 2008, 04:34 PM

Will be seeing her again tomorrow, my feelings for her aren't as strong..Because i've realised she isn't someone who will/wasn't there for me, nor did she ever appreciate all the things i done for her..I've come to terms with the fact, although i am not as upset as i was i am mainly dissapointed..I guess now when it's ended, i have had a true glimpse at her character...Completely selfish, but yeah i will survive!

And it's been uhhh..5 days NC..

plonak · Jul 28, 2008, 07:54 PM

ick.. I'm feeling especially lonely right now.. my friends aren't getting back to me, no one is online, and I can't help but miss my ex and I feel really horrible..

I was told about the rollar coaster coaster emotions that I would go through, but I guess you can't truly know what they're like unless you go through them yourself.. and lately it's been quite low and staying low.. I hate this..

bigbird213 · Jul 28, 2008, 08:01 PM

Its tough when you can't get ahold of people and you want to keep yourself busy. I used to find that watching something on TV (especially something thats a comedy/pretty funny) was the next best thing. Laughing helped me to keep my mind off of trying to get busy and her....

Then theres always spending time on here talking to people

ISneezeFunny · Jul 28, 2008, 08:10 PM

or picking at your belly button.

..but be careful. don't go too deep.

jiltedgirl · Jul 29, 2008, 07:18 PM

So I've let a day pass by, and i'm still weirded out after meeting up with the ex. I got in pretty late into the city and he came to a party where our mutual friends were. He was quite inebriated. He told me how he had "missed me a little" while I was gone. I replied sarcastically and half-jokingly, "Well, don't I feel special." I reminded him I was there to visit my friend, not him.

Odd thing happened though. He usually projects this proud, egotistical persona around me, but for the first time, he let his guard down (probably because he had a few drinks) and let his vulnerable side show. He mentioned the pressure of juggling school and work, paying his way through school, and helping his family financially by himself. I used to get annoyed and shoot down any arrogant statements or behavior, but this time, I actually wanted to comfort the poor guy. I wanted to tell him that I'd be there for him if he needed someone to lean on and mean it, but I held myself back. I didn't want either of us to get emotionally involved again. He already has enough on his plate while I frankly just cannot commit to anyone right now. He kept paying for everything, too, which made me feel even worse since he's on a budget (I'm not.)

I'm not sure how I feel or how he feels. Nor am I sure of where we stand, but I honestly don't want to think about it anymore. Gyah.

When in doubt, pursue NC. Hence, I guess i'm restarting NC. lol.



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