The NC Calendar

Numb · Aug 30, 2007, 02:34 AM

I just had this idea after reading Mik's post.

How about if we use this thread to count the NC days, all of us? Each one would mention how long he/she's been maintaining the NC period and how he/she feels with time.
Maybe in some way this can help us all (including me)?

This is my first NC day.. Afternoon here, so far didn't even touch my phone. I don't know how I feel, but I'm not that miserable, I have a goal and thinking about it, NOT HER!

What about the rest of you?

nickshehe · May 2, 2008, 10:02 AM

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When that love is gone, it's usually gone for good.

So if your partner has fallen out of love, it's time for you to do the same. When love isn't reciprocated, it comes back to you as pain. It's time to move on and start your new life.

true

kaneda · May 2, 2008, 10:23 PM

Starting day 6.Last night he IM-ed me saying "i hate you".Why?

ihatewestseneca · May 3, 2008, 02:13 AM

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Originally Posted by kaneda

Starting day 6.Last night he IM-ed me saying "i hate you".Why?

May have been the "drunken IM" ignore it, dont let it get to you as how he feels about anything is meaningless at this point.

Probably thought it would make you crack and contact him, we know you're stronger than that though ;p

talaniman · May 3, 2008, 04:50 AM

At this point in time, the last thing you need is to wonder why he is doing, what he is doing. Not only will unanswered questions drive you crazy, and keep the confusion going, but will take the focus from where it should be, on YOU!!! He is an immature NUT, so leave it at that, and start making yourself happy.

kaneda · May 3, 2008, 04:59 AM

You're both right.It wasnt the drunken IM though,since he doesnt drink but questions shouldnt be asked,Getting past your past explainted pretty good why not. I guess he's frustrated he's losing his puppy love girl ha! he'll get over it i'm sure.

losingit77 · May 3, 2008, 07:25 AM

Kaneda - Good for you for not responding! See, the NC is getting to him. But anyway, don't respond and don't dwell on it. Don't get sucked back into his land of confusion. You don't deserve that and it'll only prolong your hurt.

Ah, Day 14. Going good. Missing him but looking forward to getting to the 30 day milestone. Can't wait to see how much better I feel by then. Its weird, I've never been on the receiving end of a breakup before. Wow! Makes me feel bad for anyone I've ever broken up with before. Oh well. That which doesn't kill us only makes a stronger. Everything happens for a reason. Time heals all wounds. Look forward not backwards. Ok, that's enough sappy one-liners for today.

bigbird213 · May 3, 2008, 07:52 AM

Day 14...

Funny how its easier, then gets harder, then gets easier again. I like roller coasters, but not the emotional kind

Three days and I'm back home for summer. Looking forward to it. So much more to do at home then at school. That should make all of this a lot easier as well - i'll be much busier

Oh yeah, and I get to ride the motorcycle im buying myself next week

losingit77 · May 3, 2008, 08:03 AM

Yeah, its amazing how it gets easy, then hard, then easy, then hard. But I guess that's just how it is. Anytime i start to think, "god, i can't do this"...i remember myself, "wait its only 14 days, thats 2 weeks..come on, that's nothing, you can keep this going!"

The greatest thing about NC is it eliminates all the "what ifs". Atleast for me. I can pretend he just doesn't exist anymore. We have no friends in common (atleast anymore since we all kept our respective friends post-breakup) and I never have to run into him since we live so far apart. If i don't want to know nothing, i don't gotta know nothing. Its great!

Its like, come on losinit, you're doing fine, you can't expect to get over 4 years in 2 weeks?! One day at a time. Looking ahead to the summer. Should be fun.

Motorcycle, huh? I need to make a "change". Think I'll just go a cheaper route and dye my hair blonde. And ofcourse, go out and buy a whole bunch of new summer clothes.

bigbird213 · May 3, 2008, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by losingit77

Motorcycle, huh? I need to make a "change". Think I'll just go a cheaper route and dye my hair blonde.

It becomes a lot cheaper when I factor in gas for my commute to work

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And ofcourse, go out and buy a whole bunch of new summer clothes.

....I hope your nothing like a lot of the women I know, or else 'cheaper' is relative

ISneezeFunny · May 3, 2008, 08:36 AM

haha, yep. with the money I was saving up to get a condo for my girl and me...I bought a gsx-r.



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