The NC Calendar

Numb · Aug 30, 2007, 02:34 AM

I just had this idea after reading Mik's post.

How about if we use this thread to count the NC days, all of us? Each one would mention how long he/she's been maintaining the NC period and how he/she feels with time.
Maybe in some way this can help us all (including me)?

This is my first NC day.. Afternoon here, so far didn't even touch my phone. I don't know how I feel, but I'm not that miserable, I have a goal and thinking about it, NOT HER!

What about the rest of you?

ISneezeFunny · Apr 20, 2008, 10:19 AM

DazT:

well, you can understand why she'd think you did that...because you slept in her bed. I'm not so sure that I'd sleep in my ex's bed...even if she wasn't there. You could just as easily have said "Nothing. I didn't do anything," instead of the semi-belligerent "I'm over you...quit texting me...etc" however, what's done is done.

DazT · Apr 20, 2008, 10:45 AM

I wanted to convince her that it wasn't me that did it though. And hey, I would never do something like that in a normal state of mind, just I was drunk and I regret it.

nickshehe · Apr 20, 2008, 10:51 AM

hahah thats funny

ISneezeFunny is right though..
still funny

DazT · Apr 20, 2008, 10:55 AM

Yeah, pretty funny.. in my life, I rarely have a dull moment. No idea why..

But I'm starting to regret going to that houseparty! You learn from your mistakes though.

DazT · Apr 20, 2008, 12:10 PM

Okay guys, I'm feeling awful bad about what I text her today.. I don't want to be on bad terms with her.. so do you think I should write her a text message with something like this:

"Im sorry about earlier.. I dont want to be on bad terms with you and if I walked past you in the street Id like to be able to say hello. There isnt no point in being enemies"

What you lot think?

nickshehe · Apr 20, 2008, 03:00 PM

uhm I feel that way too..like I loved this girl and we were really good friends for so long but now im just not talking to her...but I think my well-being is more important than staying on good terms with her..
Besides, in my case she was a total bi*ch too me when we broke up..no one has ever been as cruel too me..so I dont see why I should bother being the nice guy..I dont know what your case is, but for you to be on this site im assuming you're the one that has been dumped..so I don't see why you should be the nice guy either.

Nicole0425 · Apr 20, 2008, 04:49 PM

I agree with Nick.

100%

ISneezeFunny · Apr 20, 2008, 04:57 PM

You don't have to be a nice guy, but I'm just saying that I've gone that route of being the @sshole and in the end, it really isn't worth it. It's better for the both of you (you especially) if you brush her off without being the @sshole.

DazT · Apr 21, 2008, 06:42 AM

I sent the text message, trying to end things on good terms. She replied that she wanted to be able to say hello to me on the street as well and we ended it like that.

I feel much better now and can start N/C once more.

nickshehe · Apr 21, 2008, 08:57 AM

Just to clarify I didnt mean be an ..I just meant "dont bother".
But whatever if you feel better about sending the text then fair play

I just hope you don't see her down the street and won't have to say hello.



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