The NC Calendar

Numb · Aug 30, 2007, 02:34 AM

I just had this idea after reading Mik's post.

How about if we use this thread to count the NC days, all of us? Each one would mention how long he/she's been maintaining the NC period and how he/she feels with time.
Maybe in some way this can help us all (including me)?

This is my first NC day.. Afternoon here, so far didn't even touch my phone. I don't know how I feel, but I'm not that miserable, I have a goal and thinking about it, NOT HER!

What about the rest of you?

ihatewestseneca · Apr 6, 2008, 02:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nickshehe

I also keep thinking how she could do this to us..

Well... that is the million dollar question... "how could they just... (you fill in the blank)?"

nickshehe · Apr 6, 2008, 05:22 AM

I felt alot better after deciding NC but now its seemingly worse knowing that its over and that is that.
Im still young and have no intention of getting married any time soon..We've only been apart less than a month and I've slept with 2 girls..but I still miss her and im still hurt.

nickshehe · Apr 6, 2008, 06:28 AM

She just talked to me again on msn asking if im there..
didnt reply :/
I kind of wait for her all day to come and approach me at some point..shes been doing so every 2-3 days so far..blah

nickshehe · Apr 6, 2008, 07:39 AM

she asked me if im ignoring her on purpose..
again I didnt reply..
if I said yes she'd either ask why and we would talk about it and id get pissed off again knowing she doesnt care about me..
Or she would say "ok" and id be equally pissed off..

this sucks

**#685** · Apr 6, 2008, 08:21 AM

7 weeks i gone without contact its hurting like crazy today, the other day i was strong and wrote it on here now im angy and hurt again whhy..........?

I know in 3 weeks time ill be expecting a call as its my bday then it wont happen i was meant to goon holiday with him then and it wont happen, i want to fast forward to august then ill know i be happy.

but i am proud of myself as soon as he said its over i didnt chase i just disappeared and had no contact. just need time to heal x

nickshehe · Apr 6, 2008, 08:29 AM

I need someone to tell me im doing the right thing not talking to her..
I dont need to tell her im no ttaling to her right?
thats a form of letting her have a go at having the control

**#687** · Apr 6, 2008, 08:32 AM

Ignore her. ur doing the right thing!!! be in control, dont let her think ur there x

nickshehe · Apr 6, 2008, 08:49 AM

I know what you mean concerning future plans..
I booked flights to leave early from home to go back to the UK and stay with her for a week..My residence contract excludes holidays and I can't go back to my halls until the 15th..
I was homeless up til about 4-5 days ago, now im going to stay at a friends in london..
But I keep thinking how we arranged my going there and how we were both sad about being apart for a month during the easter break and how I would miss her, and couldnt wait for the easter break to end..and she dumped me before I left and now she couldn't care less.

a w e s o m e. :/

**#689** · Apr 6, 2008, 09:28 AM

I Guess we just got to stop thinking about the plans made, they have made their decision we gotta deal with it. But please do not contact her, it will push her away, thats y i havent contacted my ex but then he could of contacted me,

Mine finished with me very out the blue cos he needed space. when he said this he was crying. i know there is noone else involved i think he is just mixed up very mixed up, 2yrs i spent with him planning our future now i got that on my own.

if they come back or not, doing no contact will help in the long run x

ihatewestseneca · Apr 6, 2008, 09:34 AM

i hate to burst your bubble, but you can never rule out the possibility of someone else. that may be the reason they're confused. as for NC, keep going! any contact will only make you feel worse than you do now. but with NC it'll get better. i promise. i still have nights where i just want to talk to my ex, but i find if i get up for a drink, when i sit back down, that feeling is almost gone... another strange "bi-polar" feeling.

keep it up people, NC is the right thing to do!



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