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How about if we use this thread to count the NC days, all of us? Each one would mention how long he/she's been maintaining the NC period and how he/she feels with time.
Maybe in some way this can help us all (including me)?
This is my first NC day.. Afternoon here, so far didn't even touch my phone. I don't know how I feel, but I'm not that miserable, I have a goal and thinking about it, NOT HER!
Dont worry about things like that Sneeze, best thing you can do is delete her, i have and all of her friends from myspace, facebook etc....ive basically fallen off the radar and its working for me at the moment im getting stronger everyday...like i said my resolve has been tested in the last week but i came through and now she knows there are no easy ways into my life again she has to fight for me now and if shes not willing to do it then its her loss not mine im in the same position i have been since day 1 and maybe, just maybe shes having second thoughts??!! right now i dont care, i care about me and me alone!!
good call...cept currently, i'm under a network at school and work so i can't delete her...there doesn't exist a buddy list. everyone's just automatically on it. i find myself checking to see if she's online on the network.
well when you dont check myspace, pat yourself on the back and celebrate!!
your next goal will be ignoring her whenever your online dont check on her
after that your done!!
We all want to know what are ex's are up to believe me where are you gonna get by checking...more confusion!! drop of the radar and heal then see what happens!!
you said it maggie... i've checked my ex's facebook a few times knowing that ill only be more hurt and confused, but i did it anyway, and guess what, more hurt and confused...but im doing better... been 2 weeks and she texted me saying that shes coming over tomorrow, i told her i was busy but she said that shes still gonna come over. so hopefully i can survive this final encounter before she goes back to school... im hoping she'll have something positive to say, but im not gonna get my hopes up.
Well keep your chin up heres a little saying for you:
hope for the best,
fear the worst,
and take what comes!!
about the truest thing my ex ever said lol!! good luck with your meeting i hope it goes well for you!!
As for me im gonna carry on with N/C and see where it takes me, at the moment im getting in better shape emotionally than i was a few months ago and i feel like ive gained some of the power in my life back from my ex!!
I dont know if I wanna call it a relapse but my ex broke NC im sure a couple of you guys have seen the post across these boards. We have emailed each other over the past week or so. Actually she initiated and I just respond. She has been doing things that it seems she is reaching out but I am not trying to be stressed or read into what she is doing. I did that before which got me stressed. I socialize and I see other women and I dont call her or text her she just emails me. She has been asking me questions but nothing too deep like am I seeing anybody etc.. just how are u how u been type stuff. I am evaluating now how I feel about it and if I want it to continue. Some friends have said I should ask what all this means but I honestly dont think it is time to ask anything. I am still in healing and I am still focused on getting myself together it does intrigue me but it doesnt consume me which i feel is progress. :>)
Some friends have said I should ask what all this means but I honestly dont think it is time to ask anything. )
not to mention, if you ask, they will IMMEDIATELY retract, thinking that they baited you. don't give in. and of course, they're never going to tell you what it means. they'll play it off as "just talking"
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