The NC Calendar

Numb · Aug 30, 2007, 03:34 AM

I just had this idea after reading Mik's post.

How about if we use this thread to count the NC days, all of us? Each one would mention how long he/she's been maintaining the NC period and how he/she feels with time.
Maybe in some way this can help us all (including me)?

This is my first NC day.. Afternoon here, so far didn't even touch my phone. I don't know how I feel, but I'm not that miserable, I have a goal and thinking about it, NOT HER!

What about the rest of you?

limeneko · May 29, 2008, 10:45 AM

its only been the 3rd day, and i sent her a msg on facebook today, god im pathetic

bigbird213 · May 29, 2008, 10:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by limeneko

its only been the 3rd day, and i sent her a msg on facebook today, god im pathetic

Not pathetic, but hurting.

You need to think about your actions now, probably much more than you ever had to before. I know I did.

Think of how you felt after you sent the message, and how you feel now. I bet the way you felt afterward was nothing like what you wanted to feel like after sending it. Its a lesson that everyone has to learn, but once you learn it, the process becomes easier.

One of the keys to NC you might say.

Romefalls19 · May 29, 2008, 10:50 AM

Ha ha no problem buddy. I wonder how she's gonna take it when she finds out I'm going to the bar with her best friend tomorrow night(me and her are friends as well and won't be just the two of us)

Yea, she sends the messages bringing up the past. I just keep the conversation light hearted and take it as it comes. Think I should keep letting her text me or should I return the favor? I'm thinking let her text me

bigbird213 · May 29, 2008, 10:52 AM

Sounds good to me. Throw her a bone once in a while, that way she wont get discouraged

Romefalls19 · May 29, 2008, 10:53 AM

lime...Don't worry, EVERYBODY falls off the horse when they just start. It happens, now take what you learned and felt after you sent that message. Get angry! Would you text someone that jumped you in the street? No! They caused you pain, they hurt you more than you should allow them, so why even bother with someone who hurt you emotionally?

limeneko · May 29, 2008, 10:54 AM

still in the stage of trying to get over with it i guess.

talaniman · May 29, 2008, 01:59 PM

Its called denial, you just can't believe she did that, and you think you can talk her into changing her mind.

zooropa1985 · May 29, 2008, 02:35 PM

well folks i went out and bought an electric guitar, ive never played one b4 so im gonna fill this time by learning how to play like a pro

classicrocker · May 29, 2008, 11:29 PM

zooropa1985, there you go my man. put this "free time" to learn the guitar. and when you do get god at it you can(if your like me) get some of that pain,emotion,anger out through those six strings.

lime; i was in the same spot you are say how pathetic i was. in reality your not. youve just been weakend by the pain. as hard as it is not talking to them is best. its hard, and i still cant master it but it is always the best route to take in this position your in.

Curlyben · Jun 16, 2008, 02:05 AM

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