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How about if we use this thread to count the NC days, all of us? Each one would mention how long he/she's been maintaining the NC period and how he/she feels with time.
Maybe in some way this can help us all (including me)?
This is my first NC day.. Afternoon here, so far didn't even touch my phone. I don't know how I feel, but I'm not that miserable, I have a goal and thinking about it, NOT HER!
I'm now on day 9 and feeling pretty good about it. It is amazing how you go through so many different emotions not only during a week, but during a day.
I had a weird dream last night..I was really really wasted cause I'm almost finished with my exams and went out to celebrate. (Yeah I know you're supposed to celebrate at the very end..but anyway). and I just fell asleep and I was on this bus (in my dream) with all the girls that I've been meeting since I was single..It was quite strange, my ex wasn't there but I would think about her in my dream..It was quite odd. I don't exactly remember what happened next but even so. I was thinking yesterday, when I was at my unis main campus how many girls are out there that could make me happy. And that I could easily fall in love for a fraction of them..there are just so many possibilities out there for us.
I dont believe in one person in the whole world that is made for you..I think there are lots.
I stopped counting the NC days, because frankly, its now just a way of normal life not a goal. Ex is slowly working out of my system! Granted, I had a dream last night, and who popped up in it? My ex's mom of all people. That was weird. But as far as I'm concerned, there is no reason to EVER to talk to my ex again. I know some people can stay friends with their ex (and I know that's what my ex really wants) but honestly, its not something i feel like i'd ever be able or want do with him. There's no point. So, suck it up, to a life lesson learned!
Anyhow, had an awesome weekend! Actually met 2 guys who kind of gave me those butterfly feelings again. And both keep calling me to hang out again! Wow, its nice to feel desired again. I still got it!
dAY 73 NC, for some reason last couple of days been thinking of my ex, think its because its pretty much exactly 6 months since she broke up with me. can get through days fine now, but the thoughts are still there. not cripling thoughts that they once were thank god, just a pang when you stop and think for a bit, then i slap myself and get back on with living my life and being me.
keep going all, its a tough ride, not easy, but it'll be worth it in the end,
It is so weird, now it feels now like i miss my ex soo much but then in a way i think i am also afraid of letting go, it is like i dont want him to let go of me and i know i should let go of him but I dont want to cause then I will lose that part of my life, it scares me that he is drifting away.... shouldnt i be happy that i am starting to slowly forget about him??
Your thinking like it hasn't happened. The relationship has ended and at this point what he is doing, how he is feeling, and if he is drifting away or not doesn't matter. You dont have to be afraid of "letting him go" because he is going, whether you let him or not. What matters is you getting to be healthy and happy by yourself.
I don't want this to be harsh because I know how tough it is to move on and try to stop thinking about the ex. The best medicine is to keep busy and keep moving forward. You have made so much progress...keep moving forward.
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