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How about if we use this thread to count the NC days, all of us? Each one would mention how long he/she's been maintaining the NC period and how he/she feels with time.
Maybe in some way this can help us all (including me)?
This is my first NC day.. Afternoon here, so far didn't even touch my phone. I don't know how I feel, but I'm not that miserable, I have a goal and thinking about it, NOT HER!
This is the very first day I'm dedicating myself to NC with my exgirlfriend. I don't want to be her back up anymore, and I'm tired of being confused. I really want her back, but I know what I'm going to get when I start chasing after her. This might be the best for me, but it'll be hard because I see her in the halls everyday. God, I hate my life.
This is the very first day I'm dedicating myself to NC with my exgirlfriend. I don't want to be her back up anymore, and I'm tired of being confused. I really want her back, but I know what I'm going to get when I start chasing after her. This might be the best for me, but it'll be hard because I see her in the halls everyday. God, I hate my life.
You are doing the right thing. NC will either bring her back or help you move on it is a win win situation. Stick to it and work on u.
This is the very first day I'm dedicating myself to NC with my exgirlfriend. I don't want to be her back up anymore, and I'm tired of being confused. I really want her back, but I know what I'm going to get when I start chasing after her. This might be the best for me, but it'll be hard because I see her in the halls everyday. God, I hate my life.
Can I ask what your timescales are here? i.e. when did she end things? how often have you been in contact since? Is it you or her who contacted?
You are doing the right thing. Put some distance between you. It can only have a positive outcome.
Hey man were all in the same boat my friend....we all feel bad but dont give up!! we all here to help if you want it just reach out!! N/C is the only way to get yourself sorted and if (big if) she wants you back then you have the choice to decide.
Im the same mate but it will get better...no person is worth feeling like you life is worthless!
5th day NC,one month since he broke up with me,i am going crazy because i'm sure he isn't coming back ever and i won't see him for God knows how long.i really hate good byes.i really wish we could just be friends.for real,JUST friends,just chat on the internet like once a week.it's awful,i can't even wish him happy holidays
Can I ask what your timescales are here? i.e. when did she end things? how often have you been in contact since? Is it you or her who contacted?
You are doing the right thing. Put some distance between you. It can only have a positive outcome.
Me and her ended in august, and we've kinda been in touch ever since then
I started NC around 3 days ago, and she contacted me yesterday of why I have been ignoring her for a while.
Hey man were all in the same boat my friend....we all feel bad but dont give up!! we all here to help if you want it just reach out!! N/C is the only way to get yourself sorted and if (big if) she wants you back then you have the choice to decide.
Im the same mate but it will get better...no person is worth feeling like you life is worthless!
Thanks, it's good to know that someone understands what I'm going through. It just kinda speeds the healing process, in my opinion. I just start to get depressed, and sad when I start playing my guitar because it just automatically makes me think of her. It was a mistake to build my whole life around this girl.
Me and her ended in august, and we've kinda been in touch ever since then
I started NC around 3 days ago, and she contacted me yesterday of why I have been ignoring her for a while.
And thank you, I appreciate it
If she is still contacting you then you need to tell her that you cannot be in contact anymore. The outcome can only be positive. It may make her focus her mind and see what she has lost, it may not, but you will start to heal over time.
Although getting her back should not be your main aim. NC is about you getting yourself back.
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