Hi guys! I have made some research on the forum, found lots of relevant information and I think it's time for me to try to reach the core of the members' thoughts about it.

Ok, pornography: is it a nearly harmless entertainment because we are mature enough to decide whether to have access to it?

I know most people, especially parents towards their teens, children, see porn a real danger, a taboo if I may say so.

I found that porn relieves sexual tension and stress, and it is used as a way to stay virgin for as long as possible.

Some of the arguments I found were:
Porn is easy to get addicted to
This in turn leads to broken relationships;
Interference with work & productivity
Compulsive sexual behaviour which can lead to illness & contradicted diseases
Depression/Suicidal thoughts and behaviours
Shame and self-hatred
Guilt and loss
Legal and financial troubles

I'm inviting everyone to comment, discuss on the theme! I hope all will turn out smoothly

Have a great day everyone!

PS: If you just joined the discussion, try reading the previous posts before stating something. It really gets annoying if we turn in circles forever.

Fr_Chuck

I had a wonderful young man, hired him to work in my warehouse, there was a computer in the office, he was not suppose to be using it, but was "allowed" to check emails during lunch.

well we had a program to tell us every web site visited, and had a strick computer use policy that he signed.

well he could not stop looking at porn, I gave him two written warnings and even banned him from the computer, but he still had to sneak in and look at porn. I fired him.

Altenweg

Now that's addiction!

I don't understand this particular addiction, seeing as it's not a chemical addiction like cigarettes or alcohol, but a mental one. I would think this particular addiction would be easy to control, then again, I've never experienced it, so what do I know?

I just don't understand how someone can get addicted to unrealistic sex acts on a computer monitor or TV screen. I mean really, I've never seen a good porn movie, they're all just fluff, bad acting, unrealistic crap. I see how they can serve a purpose, but I don't understand the addiction.

If I want to get in the mood then putting on a regular porn video will do the exact opposite. Unless you're turned on by me rolling on the floor laughing so hard that my side aches.

Fr_Chuck

From my past ( we all have them) I have known a lady or two that was turned on by them but that was "thier" thing, not really mine.

Too often it gives men esp a unrealistic idea of what sex is suppose to be, gives them a very low opinion of women as a sex toy and not another person to respect.

Altenweg

I've always found them cheesy and unrealistic, but to each their own, I guess.

The women in porn are not only bad actors but over the top, unrealistic, store bought boobs, arse, legs and tan. They're not real in real life, much less on the movie screen.

It does give men an unrealistic expectation of sex.

Let me assure all you boys, no girl is going to come up behind you while you're making photocopies in the mail room and just rip off your clothes and go at it on top of the machine. It'll never happen, so stop dreaming!

My work here is done. You're welcome.

excon

Hello again:

Ok, let's talk about porn. I'm cool with the IDEA of porn, but in reality, most of it sucks.. I got a lot of complaints...

First off, I don't like fake boobs. They don't jiggle right. What's worse is when you can see 'em moving under her skin. YUK! If I was, shall we say, getting into it before that, it was over for me...

Next, I don't like shaved beaver. I don't like a jungle, either, but, let's just say that smoothy and I have different tastes.. A shaved bush looks, how shall I put it, pre-pubescent. I'm not into kids...

I don't like the slam bam, stuff. It kinda hurts me just thinking about it. And, what's with all the spitting???? That doesn't turn me on either. I don't spit. I lick... And, you know without clitoral stimulation, all that moaning is fake...

I also don't like all that a$$ wacking. That doesn't do it for me. I don't hit my wimin. A little bite here and there, maybe...

I also don't like all that choking and gagging. If the chick can't take it and make it at least LOOK palatable, then she shouldn't be gobbling more than she can handle..

Ok, is there any stuff I like??? Not much. I like lovemaking. I like kissing. I like taking a womans clothes off slowly. They don't make hetrosexual porn like that...

They DO make lesbian porn like that. I like it.

Is that more than you wanted to know?

excon

PS> Artsy, I speak Japanese..

artlady

Oh my goodness,I was watching a show with my BF tonight and I said"now those are nice boob's ,they move",they are real and so we are on the same page again!
Whats up wit dat?

artlady

You need to preface this better than I had a wonderful young man.It sounds different that how you meant it.If you get me.

Altenweg

I have to say something before I forget. My hubby was watching that annoying show "Manswers" yesterday and I think I finally figured out why by breasts are so big. Beer! Yes, beer!

Apparently women who drink beer can go up 1 or 2 cup sizes because of it.

I better stop drinking, I can't afford a new bra.

Back to Exy.

It's the moaning and rolling of the eyes that really gets to me. I've had sex with a mirror on the ceiling, trust me, I know what I look like whilst in the throws of passion and it's nowhere near what those girls are doing, thank God, or whoever you pray to.

The fact is, it's so fake that it's funny. It's also annoying because people get off on it and it's not even close to the real deal.

So, Unky, my dear sweet underage Unky. Porn is okay if you think it's going to satisfy your urges, but, if you're watching it instead of doing the things you love to do, or if you're beginning to believe that the stuff you're watching is how it really is, then turn it off, burn the tapes and talk to us, because you know we care about you and you know I'll tell you the truth.

Another beer? Oh, what the heck, G cup, here I come.

artlady

I have NO CLUE what that means ,seriously,I'm laughing but I have no clue .
Did we have a Japanese moment I forgot about ?
I feel pretty good about it actually

excon

Hello again, artsy:

It was good for me too.

ex

PS> I think the kama sutra is Japaneseish... Or, maybe it Chineseish. I dunno. Mongolianish???