Hi guys! I have made some research on the forum, found lots of relevant information and I think it's time for me to try to reach the core of the members' thoughts about it.

Ok, pornography: is it a nearly harmless entertainment because we are mature enough to decide whether to have access to it?

I know most people, especially parents towards their teens, children, see porn a real danger, a taboo if I may say so.

I found that porn relieves sexual tension and stress, and it is used as a way to stay virgin for as long as possible.

Some of the arguments I found were:
Porn is easy to get addicted to
This in turn leads to broken relationships;
Interference with work & productivity
Compulsive sexual behaviour which can lead to illness & contradicted diseases
Depression/Suicidal thoughts and behaviours
Shame and self-hatred
Guilt and loss
Legal and financial troubles

I'm inviting everyone to comment, discuss on the theme! I hope all will turn out smoothly

Have a great day everyone!

PS: If you just joined the discussion, try reading the previous posts before stating something. It really gets annoying if we turn in circles forever.

artlady

Hi Unky!
I think as with anything else in life a good motto is "moderation in all things".

Anything to excess and thats where the trouble begins.

While some couples would say viewing porn has saved their marriage ,some would say it has ruined it.

Exploitive porn in any way ie; child pornography is always a huge no no in my book.
As is porn that is deviant in nature,people and animals ,creepy things like that.

Altenweg

Hi Unky.

I agree with the others and have to add, I can take it or leave it, porn that is.

Most porn is just too cheesy for me. I'm the girl in the room that's snickering because the acting (if you can call it that) is terrible and the music isn't fit for an elevator. Yup, I'm the buzz kill.

As for magazines, it depends. I don't like the hardcore, in your face, look at my junk magazines. I like the tasteful ones, where something is left to the imagination.

I know, shocking isn't it?

shazamataz

I've never had a problem with porn.
If my partner and i are having an "off week" but he still needs a bit of action then he will have a bit of a porn session on the computer.
Doesn't bother me at all, saves him annoying me when I'm not in the mood

Most of the time though it's a mutual thing, we watch together.
I agree with you on the cheese factor Alty, some of the movies are more comedy than sexy!
We actually have a couple of hentai (or cartoon porn) movies that we watch just for a laugh rather than to get in the mood, the translations from japanese are hilarious!

artlady

You want cheesy?
Zombie strippers from hell ,now that a real turn-on Its a movie by the way! Not my personal preference

Altenweg

If I want to watch people, um, "make love" (I'm going to vomit) then I prefer the how too kama sutra tapes that hubby and I got.

There, I bared my soul. Go ahead, throw rocks.

artlady

Are you kidding?
Thats what its all about is the inner connection! I get it baby , and as often as I can

Altenweg

Ditto.

Oops, this is Unky's thread. Unky is under 18! We have to keep this PG.

Unky, we get popcorn, that's what Arsty was talking about. With butter, and salt.

artlady

I said love so thats a good thing to know...all we need is love Unky,thats the way to go

Altenweg

Make love not war?

artlady

Do you have Halloween in Canada?
I'm really that stupid that I don't know