Im 15 in love with a man who is 25 and we are going to get married on my 16 birthday but we want to move to north dekota and im worried about what they can do. so any one who knows about it please answer i dont want one or both of us to go to jail.

J_9

If the two of you are engaging in sex, he is already committing a crime. What do your parents think of him?

He is a child predator, plain and simple. There is no mentally competent 25 year old man that would be interested in a 15 year old child.

If you want to get married, just get parental permission.

Fr_Chuck

First unless your parents are gong to sign for you, you are not going to get married at 16. And to be honest a 25 year old that wants to be with a 15 year old needs to be in jail.

katebrown198292

they approve and there going to sing im not worried about that its can north dakota do any thing about me bing up there and my mom being down in in colorado when we are married

J_9

As long as you are married they can't but it just sounds sick to me. This man sounds like a pedophile. What would a 25 year old man have in common with a 15 year old child? That's just sick, sick, sick.

katebrown198292

ok a 15 year old with a mental compasity of a 35 year old other then the shcoolling and why sick if both can take care of each other and there no sex invold what is wrong with loving each other and wantting to make shure that each and both lives are grate and they both want only the best for one another/

J_9

Your post shows the immaturity of a 15 year old. I am not trying to be rude, but your post screams immaturity.

In marriage there is sex, so sex would be involved. Most 13 year olds that I know (and I am a mother of 4 children, so I know a lot of 13 year olds) do not have the mental capacity of a 35 year old. Who told you that? Your 25 year old boyfriend?

Now, you live in Colorado, he is in North Dakota right? Did you meet him on the internet?

katebrown198292

no i lived in N.d for 5 years and we meet thourgh my older brother and started to date when i was 14 but my mom had familey down here we moved and last year i moved up there to go to shcool and well i had to move down here cuz my mom lives here and the both of want to and my dad brought it up to me and him but we dont want to get married and have me moveup there to be sent all the way down here again

JudyKayTee

I don't know what's in your parents' heads - you can barely spell. What is going to happen if and when this "man" leaves you for a younger woman, and it's going to happen, particularly if he likes young girls. How in the World are you going to support yourself and your children?

I'm not as worried about you as I am about him - something about a 25 year old preferring the company of children is frightening to me. Your posts don't indicate maturity beyond your age level.

Sounds like your mind is made up and I'm sure none of this is getting through to you.

J_9

This is just sick sick sick. If your dad brought it up, he should be reported to Child Protective Services.