I own a home in nj and I recently rented a bedroom to a guy with bathroom,kitchen privileges.also use of livingroom.my house is small.I have a room there but have not slept there since he has been there because I'm staying at a sick friends house to help her for a short time.I let him put what was supposed to be 15 small containers in my garage.turned out to be a lot more,a lot!! I stop at the house reg and he has filled my small room off kichen with boxes also some in livingroom,plus some in basement and somehow added stuff to garage,its packed.he said his son would be there some weekends and that's almost evryweekend.he is 12... now I deal with that its his kid but now he has a girlfriend who I caught sleeping over.Not sure but she is going trhu divorce and she stays with him often.He does not pay utilities but runs up bills with the others being here.He has the balls to subtract for buying light bulbs,7.00 bulbs wo asking.also I gave him blinds but he did not like that they went on outside of window not inside so he bought 2 and charged me also.. my mortgage just went up and I need him out.I am falling behind on bills and he is making this worst.I am a single middle aged woman struggling as it is.he has only been there since 15 dec09.my friend wants to move in and pay all my bills so I don't loose my house.I know this guy knows his rights.how do I go about getting him out..? I was told I could give him 30 dys notice since he just has room in my house.I was going to be nice and give him till April 1st 2010.what do I do.. he has no lease but some reciepts for when he paid...