The boyfriend is 19 years old. He makes absolutely no contribution to the household. Since he was living in Oregon (we are in Washington) I allowed him to visit for a 'few days' at the beginning of October to celebrate my daughter's birthday. He has no car and does not wish to return to Oregon. I told him that he needs to leave several times, and he just tells me no. Of course, my daugthter sides with him. You can cut the tension here with a knife. It is a miserable situation. I am a single mom of two girls and I own the house. Hoping for some advice. Thank you.