ive been in relationship for some months and i really feel the need to complete it by having baby. It seems wrong i know, but im thinking its just maternal instinct kicking in. I dont want to go through the labor pains really but everything else i want to do wholeheartedly. I can because im not financially independent and am still in school what should i do?
Like another poster said, BABYSIT!! Babysit as much as you can. Check into being an AuPair (which is when you are with a family 24/7 and your duties are to tend to the childrens everey need. But bear in mind, an AuPair gets a day off, a parent does not (unless you can afford it, and at 19 that doesn't sound likely). Another plus to going this route is that you might find that you simply don't want kids anymore after dealing with the constant whining, demands, tantrums, etc...) It can't hurt to at least give it a try. If you guys are so in love, he will still be there waiting for you no matter how long you are away being an AuPair.....then again, if he's gone when you come back, take it as a blessing that you didn't have kids with this guy!!
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