Recently my friend has been hurting herself due to a break-up with her bf. She has lost allot of weight and is cutting her arms. she talks about killing herself. i don’t no what to do because she is staring to be mean to us her friends and i don’t want to cause her any more pain but she is making me life a pain because she is being self centred and a bit of a *****. she says she was really in love with him and that she cant live without him. i think she clings on to him because she has never had a stable family life. her mother doesn’t seem to love or care for her what so ever. she doesn’t want to believe they have broken up and is continually thinking of ways to make him love her again. he has gone to uni, and is meeting new friends. he says that he wants to meet new people and see if it is true love because it was her first everything and his too. she doesn’t understand why e is doing this to her how can i help her!!

fredg

Hi,
Your friend is cutting her arms? That is an indication that she is "crying out" for help. Sometimes, the first relationship in a person's life is very hard, in breaking up.
The best thing you can do is keep talking with her; and try convincing her to seek help, maybe from a counselor, or other Professional.
Talk her into going with you, and talk with someone who doesn't know either of you; like a Minister, or anyone else; maybe even a Doctor.
I do wish you good luck,
fredg