| I understand that the man should take care of his responsibility, but there are other circumstances to this. I know someone who made a big mistake with a woman who was taking birth control pills and stopped taking them to conceive on purpose, after knowing the man didn't want children. He even stepped up to take care of his responsibility(doesn't live with her, and is not with her), pays his child support, and sees his son every other weekend. (never missed a payment in 5 yrs). For the last 5 yrs the woman has done nothing but harrass him, call him names, smokes in the house (after the dr told her the child has allergies to cig smoke) and child needs allergy shots every week. She has made several attempts to get more money from domestic relations and has failed. He's not allowed to have any decision making in the kids life as to day care, doctors visits, nor anything else he's just supposed to pay and take the kid whenever she wants. You people are too quick to judge situations and too quick to blame men. There are some great men in this world and terrible women. This man has actually stepped up and is being treated like sh** from the mother for the past 5 yrs and has actually paid his child support and sees his son. The mother actually wants him to sign his rights away since she's remarried and he wants to relinquish his right. But she won't do it and it was her idea! She throws that up in his face everytime she wants him to take his son and he can't, or has to work. So there are good men in this world don't be so quick to judge | 
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