What tangled webs we weave
I too am new to this so my advice should be taken with a grain of salt. From my point of view it appears that perhaps this guy does not love you the same as you love him. I mean if he truly loved you then a house or any material thing would not be a valid reason for staying. You mentioned that you have only gone on one date, then talked a few time, and lost contact. With such little contact how could you possibly know that the two of you have such love for one another? So I am confused just with the comment in general. It appears that people are so afraid to live alone that they settle to be with someone, anyone just not to be alone. I believe that there can be a lot of personal growth in time alone. Time is the answer, so just give it time. It is better to be alone, than be in a relationship with the feeling of being alone or trapped. If both parties in a relationship do not have mutual love for one another, then in time the relationship become bothersome and will in time shall fail. Not sure if I was able to help you at all, but just the same I wish you the very best of luck!!
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