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Old Aug 27, 2007, 02:19 AM
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Is It Really Fair? If so, to Who?





This question is something that many of our young girls of today must ask themselves. It is a heart-wrenching question for any who contemplate it. Some really don’t know what to do because of the lack of maturity that only comes from experience and age. Some young ladies are only 12 years old, and very confused and frightened.

Society asks, why would anyone want to kill the life of any developing human within themselves? Why would any doctor, nurse or any professional person, who took an oath to do everything in their power to save life, now want to take a life? Answering this question might make some very angry at me but I must write this for the sake of the unborn and for the benefit of a young girl facing such a choice. There are reasons why abortions are done everyday. One very main reason is selfishness either on the part of the parents and it might also be on the part of the expecting mother to be. Also they sometimes do not wish to take the responsibility for their choices and so now the unborn must pay the price for their bad actions.

Society feels in some cases it is better to avoid the consequences of the act and to take steps to conceal, rather then to talk about the problem of sexual intercourse and it being used as a pastime outside of marriage. Some want to enjoy sex fully, without taking responsibility of a natural consequence of sex, a baby! Abortion today is being used as form of birth control. This method of birth control is unfair to the unborn child and is just a plain sick method of shrugging ones responsibility and putting their own selfish desires before the life of the unborn. There is no respect for life in those who abort the innocent because they are addicted to the selfish desire of sexual pleasure then to show respect for life.

The Bible says: “In the last days critical times hard to deal with will be here. For men will be lovers of themselves” and “lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of God.” Is it not obvious that this condition prevails in our day?—2 Timothy 3:1-4.

Do you know that in the medical field and elsewhere the unborn baby is referred to as “the products of conception,” or what about “contents of the uterus”. Doctors who do abortion refer to the unborn as “contents of the uterus.” In the process of an abortion to make look less then killing, a doctor might ask the nurse, “Is the “content of the uterus” completed?” How sad when a unborn human is not even referred to anything but “content.” These ones that commit such horrific acts against the unborn, try to avoid the moral issue by calling an abortion “termination of pregnancy.” No matter what doctors and abortion clinics and those who go to them try to avoid, the fact remains is this: Abortion is the killing of an unborn human.

Just because the unborn is in the uterus does not make any difference. The abortion is done within 12 weeks of conception. What difference does it make though as to when a human is choked to death, 12 weeks after conception or 12 minutes after it is born into this world? Is not killing still killing? Many moral professionals have though quit their jobs because they could not stand seeing a helpless fetus that was aborted, suffer and struggle to live in a disposal container, while other doctors and nurses sit back and watch this fetus fight to live, until it can not fight any longer. What if that fetus was you?

Some claim that the fetus in not human yet and it doesn’t feel. If that is true, then why do some professionals quit their jobs because of seeing the aborted fetus struggle to live?
These same ones say the fetus is not human because it cannot live by itself. This is not a good argument because we have many adults and children, who depend on the use of an artificial kidney machine or the aid of a battery-powered heart pacemaker. These ones cannot live without the help of these machines. Does that make them less human and alive?

Medical professionals agree that life does begin at the moment of conception. I quote The World Book Encyclopedia, page 228b, has a photograph of an egg and sperm taken through a microscope. The caption over the photo says: “A human life begins when the sperm gets through the outer covering of an egg and fertilizes it.” After reading this from the world encyclopedia, can you personally say that the life snuffed out was not a live unborn human?

Remember this, if your mother aborted you, you would have ended up in a garbage can. As a human that was allowed to live and that did not get aborted as a fetus, do you personally regret that your mother was more concerned with the right for you to live and welcome you, then her rights to have an abortion? Then maybe you will feel for the unborn humans that get aborted each and every day in this world.

If you are a young lady and are faced with the choice of either becoming responsible for your unborn child, giving it up for adoption, or abortion, please read something I wrote that might help you in your choice. Thank you for reading it.

“Mommy, Can You Hear Me?”
By Hope12

“Today I was conceived. I do not have a name as of yet, but my life began today. I can’t wait to see you mommy and tell you how much I love you. I can’t wait for you to hold me in your arms.
Mommy, can you hear me?”

“I am really small, but guess what, I am really here, and I just can’t wait to touch your face and see your smile. I am yours and I am real.
Mommy, Can you hear me?

You should see me mommy I am really growing and getting stronger and stronger each day. Why I am so surprise, because I look and each day I find something new. Now don’t worry mommy, pretty soon I will see you and I know you will love me, because I already love you.”

Today I heard a loud beat, it was my heart and it beats strong. My heart will be important to my future because it will keep me alive when I am born and it will motivate me to always love you and do what is good, especially for you.”

“Mommy, can you hear me?”

Oh, my, what is this, it looks like my arms and legs are growing. I am going to have legs so I can run and jump into your arms. I’m really so excited.”

“Mommy can you hear me?”

I will soon grow so big for this place and I will need more room, and that is when I will be with you Mommy.” It is quit dark here and I can’t wait to feel the sunlight on my face and play outside with you

I wonder what color hair you have mommy? Are you tall or short? Don’t worry; I will love you no matter what you look like. Do you love me? Oh that a silly question because, “I love you mommy and I just know you will love me. I am such a strong and healthy little girl. I am also part of you mommy, so I guess I will be just like you. I think you are special and you are my mommy who I love and can’t wait to see. Mommy, can you hear me?”

“Wait, please wait, don’t do that it hurts real bad. What is going on? Ouch, oh my, I don’t feel so good, mommy. Something terrible is happening to me and it really hurts me.” Please Mommy, make it stop hurting, I’m so scared mommy. I really need your help mommy, something hurts me and it is making me cry.

Mommy, can you hear me?”

What is your comments and can you answer the question: Is this fair? If so to who?

 
     

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Old Sep 3, 2007, 08:24 AM   #31  
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No I don't! Getting an abortion is not something I would tell any one let alone a female.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Sep 3, 2007, 08:33 AM   #32  
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Let me ask if aborting a fetus with anecephaly is considered murder. Anecephaly is a cephalic disorder that results from a neural tube defect that occurs when the cephalic (head) end of the neural tube fails to close, usually between the 23rd and 26th day of pregnancy, resulting in the absence of a major portion of the brain, skull, and scalp. Infants with this disorder are born without a forebrain, the largest part of the brain consisting mainly of the cerebral hemispheres (which include the isocortex, which is responsible for higher level cognition. The remaining brain tissue is often exposed - not covered by bone or skin.

These children typically do not live one hour after birth, if they live this long.

Is this murder if the woman chooses abortion then?

Does no one believe there may be medical reasons for abortion?



Is it murder to have an abortion when you know that this baby will not live but a few hours at most?
 
 
     
 
 
Old Sep 3, 2007, 08:59 AM   #33  
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I believe there are medical AND emotional reasons for abortion. I do not agree with the just because abortions.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Sep 3, 2007, 09:04 AM   #34  
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I don't believe that abortion should be a form of birth control. But I believe there are reasons for it.
 
 
     
 
 
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Yup, same here. A reason like it was an accidental pregnancy is not reason enough for me but if someone was to have BIG problems (health) while being pregnant, I can see why someone would make that choice, OR incest or rape may qualify too. At least in my heart.
 
 
     
 
 
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I believe there are medical AND emotional reasons for abortion. I do not agree with the just because abortions.

But you can't have it both ways. You can't just pick and choose who can terminate and who can't. It's sad that there are women who have so little respect for their bodies and future that they would rather abort than use a condom or take the pill. But you can't tell those women they aren't allowed to abort, but other women are. It has to be an option for everyone, no matter what their reasoning is.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Sep 3, 2007, 06:43 PM   #37  
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Well said, Hope12. I have seen a fetus struggling in a specimen pan folloiwng an attempted abortion. It is embedded in my mind and has made me aware of how precious life is. We live in an age where being responsible for our actions is fading away. It's always someone elses fault when things go wrong. When a young girl gets pregnant and is disappointed, frightened, embarrased, why is that? If we learn to love one another and not lust one another it wouldn't be so complicated. Real love is not selfish. Real love is patient. Real love puts the other person first. Real love wants the best for the other person. Real love lasts respects the other person's opinions. Real love is not based on just feelings alone but on the big picture - savoring the uniqueness of the person we love, just as they are, through good times and bad. There seems to be a "disposable" mentality when it comes to relationships today. Whatever happened to committment?

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Hope12 agrees: Very good at least someone here appreciates life of the fetus at conception as valuable..Thankyou
 
 
     
 
 
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So far it seems that everyone is looking at abortion as a form of birth control. Has anyone else considered that abortion may be used for other reasons?

I didn't think so.

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jillianleab agrees: Shhhhh! That weakens the pro-life argument! :)
Hope12 disagrees: I feel their is never a good reason to kill another!
 
 
     
 
 
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But you can't have it both ways. You can't just pick and choose who can terminate and who can't. It's sad that there are women who have so little respect for their bodies and future that they would rather abort than use a condom or take the pill. But you can't tell those women they aren't allowed to abort, but other women are. It has to be an option for everyone, no matter what their reasoning is.
I know, it sure is sad.....BUT true....
J, not sure if you noticed but I pretty much said the same thing. There are many reasons that a woman may want to make this choice and it would be dangerous for us not to let them have that right. even though many of us feel like it is the wrong reason for it, or not a good enough one. I had a friend in high school, she got pregnant, and because of her heath issues and what not, she was advised to have an abortion. Death would become her or the baby, she got the abortion, even though she could have died carrying that baby, she still has guilt. Poor girl, I felt like there was nothing i could do ever to help her get through but to give her many hugs and I love you's!
 
 
     
 
 
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Jillian always seems to have the "right" answer.
 
 
     


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