I have a question.
I think i have a "gift" to see people on the inside who they really are.
I can feel their intetntions, i can feel what they are thinking i can see their week ponits, feel what they feel. And this feelings are really deep. Like i was in their body, methaphoricly speaking. For example i can feel everytime when a girl likes me but i can see this on guys too and not few. I can know why people are saying some tings or why they act as they do. I can feel when they are hideing some things.
Dont get me wrong i am not a mindreader, i can just feel.
At first i thought my mind is playing with me, that i am makeing this up in my mind, but through time i saw that it is true.

Now it bothers me, if i should bring this up with the people i interact, i mean should i tell them their faults and explain things to them, should i tell them that i know how they feel towards some things. This is very hard becaue i would in some way embares them,
How would u feel if someone would tell u some things that were ment only for u to know, that where your secrets?
How would you react?

PS As i read this through i know it sounds strange probably some wont understand, but please try to anwser the last two questions.
If someone has the same experiences please let me know thank you.
Andrew

RubyPitbull

How would u feel if someone would tell u some things that were ment only for u to know, that where your secrets?
How would you react?

I have never experienced what you are experiencing so I cannot tell you I understand completely what you are going through.

I can tell you that I would probably not like people telling me stuff about myself especially personal stuff that would embarass me. My reaction would be to pull away from that person because it would scare me to have them know my secrets.

Just my personal view.

You may want to also post this under the spirituality or psychic section. Maybe someone else can give you a bit more guidance to explain what it is you are going through.

phillysteakandcheese

You have a gift. You now also need an ethical code of behavior for yourself.

You may have perceptions about a person, but that doesn't mean you should walk up to them and start berating them about "thier faults". You're not suppossed to try and "fix" every man, woman, child, and animal that crosses your path. You might come across particular individuals though that you do need to stop and strike up a conversation with, and plant a suggestion about how they might be able to help themselves.

When you do meet and talk to someone, you probably want to be open and tell them you have paranormal perception and can "feel" things about people. Some people will have their interest peeked and ask you more, and really get into it with you, and it will develop your relationship skills. Others will give you a funny look and then decide they have to get away from you... And when that happens, you'll probably already know why they are trying to hide.

How you decide to handle this "information" is up to you. Developing a personal code of ethics will help you decide when you "need" to reach out to someone, and when you need to "lay back" and be an observer.

shygrneyzs

I have a gift too, my intuition tells me right off if the person is honest or not, can be trusted or not, is verifiable or full of baloney. There have been times I have ignored my intuition and tried to give the person the benefit of the doubt and have deeply regretted it. I also can see one's soul in their eyes and there are many times I wish I did not. As to their thoughts, I do not know it all the time, some people are better at masking than others. But I NEVER ever would consider coming up to someone and pointing out their faults and shortcomings. Not unless I want a punch in the face or called names and have someone storm off. It is like Philly said - you have a code of ethics to live by - we all do as human beings in all our relationships with others. How would you like it if someone came up to you and started in on your faults? Not nice.

nindzha

I can see this is realtive to the pearson, if soemone would come to me and told me what i am doing "wrong" directly, but in a nice way, i would be very glad and i am not jokeing.
In fact i very much wish to meet a sicnere pearson, who is capabel of "reading" people.
Why? Because i seek perfection.
And it is very difficult to judge yourself because u are not objective.

NeedKarma

There is no 'perfection' in people simply because everyone's perception of perfection is different. What you want to do reminds me of religious types who think I'm on the wrong path (because it's not the same as their path) and try to change me.

nindzha

A very very smart anwser!
But tell me what do you seek in your life?

valinors_sorrow

What you are is called highly intuitive or empathic in my circles. I am also. I have learned over the years many things about it from trying different approaches. It can be both a gift and a burden. I think I know where most of this ability comes from and I am comfortable with that. I have learned I cannot prevent another's pain by warning them. I cannot prevent poor outcomes by telling what I know. I now realise my "knowing" is only half the equation -- that even more important is the "receptor"... the person who needs to be actually interested in this information.

It took me a long time to surround myself with people who are truthful to themselves and feel safe with my ability to "see" as far as I do. Some still like to call me psychic when I reveal the full effect of it - a term I disagree with. If I showed how this is to others too openly, I would scare people and I know that. I use my gift only when asked but those who do ask benefit greatly. I tend to gain a reputation wherever I go that you don't ask Val anything unless you want an deeply honest answer and that helps to edit out those who are not ready. But I built that reputation carefully, knowing people are more fragile than they like to appear. I mostly use it to benefit myself, my husband and our close friends who are very comfortable with it.

Having researched this for a long time. I have come to the conclusion that most people could be a lot more like this and choose in subtle, subconscious ways not to be. Its saddens me because we all would be better off with more awareness like this -- just look at my name to see some of that sadness. We live (atleast in the US) in a culture that has supported people being "asleep" and to our collective ruin too. But as the wise old saying suggested, when the student is ready, the teacher will appear-- that was, by the way, instructions as much for the teacher as it is for the student. Learn to use your gift to discern who is ready and be very very conservative in your offering to them. It still takes me some effort to keep my mouth shut in some circumstances, if that helps you any. LOL

PS - I disagree with your statement about lacking onbjectivity concerning yourself. That's called maturity and many non-empathic people have it too.

NeedKarma

Easy answer for me: I seek to be a good person to others, a good husband and a good father. I also seek new experiences to make life interesting, whether it's meeting new people, travelling to new places, etc. Life is as complicated as we make it.

I have met a lot of people in my lifetime so far and I can read people as well. I do not profess to want to change anyone but rather I make it a point to stay away (or aware) of the people with bad intentions. So I guess I use my skills for personal use.

nindzha

For starters let me say i am only 19 years old and so i am not experianced as u probably are.
If i understand u all correctly what u are saying is:
Mind your own buissnes?

But unfourtently i am a kind of pearson that cant sleep on that.
Why souldnt i help if i have the resources to do that, deep inside is sence why but can u please explain in words.
Thank you