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Old May 2, 2007, 02:22 PM
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Quiet but chatty member

Why am I so quiet?

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Old May 2, 2007, 02:28 PM   #2  
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hammy, you are anything but quiet here.

Are you quiet at home? With your family? With your friends?

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Old May 2, 2007, 02:30 PM   #3  
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I'm not quiet at home, I'm not quiet with my family, I'm quiet everywhere else except here!
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So, you are saying that you are not quiet here or with your family. You are quiet in school? You are quiet around people your own age?
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So, you are saying that you are not quiet here or with your family. You are quiet in school? You are quiet around people your own age?

Yeah, I'm saying that. Yes, I'm quiet in school around people around my own age.
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Well, not being able to see you interact with people on a daily basis, it is very hard for anyone to explain why you are so quiet. I think you may know the reason yourself. Do they make you uncomfortable? Explain to me what you feel when you are in a social situation.
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There is nothing wrong with being quiet. As long as you voice your opinion when it is needed!
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Well, not being able to see you interact with people on a daily basis, it is very hard for anyone to explain why you are so quiet. I think you may know the reason yourself. Do they make you uncomfortable? Explain to me what you feel when you are in a social situation.


I don't know, I feel like...listening. I do have a few ideas for why I'm so quiet. It could be that I'm shy. It also could be that I'm serious and quiet, and everyone else is outgoing. It could be that I couldn't hear conversations that well as a kid, so I might feel left out. Could those be reasons for why I'm so quiet?
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There is nothing wrong with being quiet. As long as you voice your opinion when it is needed!

I agree, but what about when you're so quiet, that other people have a hard time hearing you?
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Skell, my dear, what a nice surprise! Hammy, Skell has a point. Have you ever heard the expression, "Still waters run deep?" Sometimes it is better to be quiet than too chatty. When you are like that, people have a tendency to listen to you more when you do decide to speak.

I think all the reasons you listed are reasons for being quiet. It sounds like shyness is more the problem for you. Do you feel unsure of yourself around others? Worried about what people may think or say? So, maybe you think it would be better not to say anything because you think they will make fun of you? Does that kind of stuff run through your mind when you are around other people your age?
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