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sarv1999 · Mar 10, 2010, 01:06 AM

My mother-in-law is a sweet person for everyone in my husbands home.. I first I too thought she is true to me & my husband.but came to know later that she makes every plan for her wish to come true.from childhood my husband's only mantra is his mother's words.. he never goes against... after marriage she had said not to mingle with my parents and sisters.. and to maintain the distance.. he will not greet my parents or talk to them when they arrive to my home... I am much worried how a mom could tune a son so nicely.. to hear all of her words.. if I advice him softly what you do is not correct... he will not mind and will continue to be the same.. even if we get 2 days leave also I wish to go for some outing place... but he will rush to his native to meet his mom... and will talk to her for the whole day.. till now after 3 yrs of married life he has not talked to me for more than 10 minutes... he says he wants to marry me becoz he felt I would take care of his parents nicely.. only for that reason he married me... even if you don't talk to me,don't cook me food I will not mind but please talk to my parents daily... make them happy.. live for them..

I am fed up of him... he acts all as per mothers word... no self thinking... tried to max even going to psychiatrist but no use.. he is mad of his mother and thinks he is a bachelore still to enjoy his time with parents..

I hate my husband... & my motherin law who make her wishes come true from his son

rahluraj · Mar 10, 2010, 01:17 AM

Your feelings are understandable
Tell me do you have a kid?
Well if no then its OK but if yes then you can understand the attachment that parents have with the child
But still whatever is going on is probebly not entierly right its OK to look after your parentas but at the same time one must understand the feelings and expectations of the wife also needs to be fulfilled
OK tell me is your husband in any way dependent on his parents financially?
If no then you should speak to him that what impact it can have on your marriage and even in that case there would be no one to take care of him leave alone his parents
Speak to him things will work out as time goes by

cindyhannah1 · Jun 24, 2010, 09:00 AM

NOW THAT IS FRUSTRATING!! Talk to the mother in law and talk to your husband say to him how fed up you are with him always listening to his mom. Then if you just can't take one more month explode because that would drive me crazy but you take the actions you think are neccasary.