Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 3 years and we have a fifteen month old son together. When I got pregnant my boyfriend was living in an apartment and I had just gotten my degree so I was in the process of looking for a better job. We were supposed to get a place together, but behind me back my boyfriend bought a house with his brother as a business investment and moved in with a friend he knew I did not want to live with. To top it off he lied and told me his roommate would be gone in 6 months when in actuality he cannot afford the house without him. I refuse to move in because the lack of trust and he believes that I am being selfish. Do you think I should suck it up and give in or should I stick to my guns and wait till we can be a family with just the three of us?

Wondergirl

I would never move in with your husband's friend already living there. It's already "their" house. You would feel like a fifth (third?) wheel. Stick to your guns.

dp03

dp03 here - i think he should have talked to you first about this house
you should go with your heart if you love him and he loves you you and him should sit
down together and work it out! i wish i had my girl home to work things out! some day he will regret leaving his girl behind take it from me a guys point of view i would never leave my girl go again.