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    Sep 25, 2007, 12:15 PM
    How do delete this program my mom put on me?
    My mom put this program on and now she knows when I am on the computer and she knows how long I have been on the computer.and I just need to delete the program as as possible.
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    Sep 25, 2007, 12:16 PM
    Who bought the computer?
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    Sep 25, 2007, 12:18 PM
    You have to be kidding! You really think we are going to help you get rid of or get around controls imposed by your parental units?

    Get real!
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    Sep 25, 2007, 12:50 PM
    I have the same thing on my computer at home.

    Even if I were unethical and immoral enough to tell you how to defeat the program, I couldn't do so without knowing her username and password for that program.

    But even if I knew, I wouldn't say, since it's there for your discipline and protection.
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    Sep 26, 2007, 05:04 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by NeedKarma
    Who bought the computer?
    My mom bought the computer.
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    Sep 26, 2007, 05:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ScottGem
    You have to be kidding! You really think we are going to help you get rid of or get around controls imposed by your parental units?

    Get real!
    yes I thought u would help.
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    Sep 26, 2007, 05:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bre1028
    My mom bought the computer.
    Then she runs the show. When you have your own money and your own internet connection then you can make the decisions.
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    Sep 26, 2007, 05:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bre1028
    yes i thought u would help.
    Well then you were being foolish or naïve.
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    Sep 26, 2007, 08:38 PM
    Your mom will know the codes to turn it off or delete it, just ask her.
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    Sep 27, 2007, 02:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by bre1028
    My mom put this program on and now she knows when i am on the computer and she knows how long i have been on the computer.and i just need to delete the program as as possible.
    And, there is also a very good likelihood that your mom knows where you have been on the computer as well as the Internet.

    I am sure that one of the things your mom is concerned about is who you might meet up with on the Internet.

    I am glad that you mother cares about you enough to put that kind of program on the computer. Be thankful. Not all parents are that caring about their children. We have some kids who are on this site way past a logical and reasonable time when they should have been in bed in order to get up for school the next morning. Their parents obviously don't have as much concern for them as your mother does for you.
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    Sep 27, 2007, 02:55 AM
    If you really want to blow Mom's mind next time she checks the computer, don't use the computer for several days, unless it is needed for school work.

    Imagine her dismay and the confused look on her face when she learns you been reading books, mowing the lawn, cleaning your room, helping with the household chores, playing outside getting exercise, and only using the puter for useful purposes like homework.

    Imagine the day she can actually begin trusting you to do the right thing.
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    Sep 27, 2007, 10:18 AM
    Don't look at the monitoring program in a bad way, your mum cares enough to put it on, anyway I trust you wouldn't go on any innapropriate sites.
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    Oct 3, 2007, 08:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Jack2794
    Dont look at the monitoring program in a bad way, your mum cares enough to put it on, anyway I trust you wouldn't go on any innapropriate sites.
    I know my mom cares about me but I don't want my mom to care what and where I go in the computer.I just want her to let me go any where on the computer without her saying don't go here don't go there.I miss the chat room so much I wish I could go to the chat room now.I wish she could just forget I was even living in the house so I could do and go where ever I feel like going.The chat room is safe and I can't get through to her and let her understand that it is safe.When I get someone who is good @ computers I am going to ask the person to delete that program she has on the computer then I will be back on the chat room.I am going to try to get some over to my house when my mom is not home and let them help me with the computer program.
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    Oct 3, 2007, 08:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by NeedKarma
    Who bought the computer?
    My mom bought the computer.
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    Oct 3, 2007, 08:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bre1028
    When i get someone who is good @ computers i am going to ask the person to delete that program she has on the computer then i will be back on the chat room.I am going to try to get some over to my house when my mom is not home and let them help me with the computer program.
    This is why your mother put the program on the computer in the first place.

    You may think you don't want your mother to care but think about that for a second. Would you want her to completely not care about you? Not take you to the doctor when you are sick, buy food and cook meals for you, keep a neat house, pay bills or taxes, leave you alone by yourself all the time, her never being there when you need your mom. You only say you don't want her to care because you want to be in some chat room which was probably taking your attention away from school and your reality. Your mom sounds like a pretty awesome mom to me.
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    Oct 3, 2007, 08:54 PM
    Actually many chat rooms are not near as safe as many teens believe they are
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    Oct 3, 2007, 09:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bre1028
    i know my mom cares about me but i don't want my mom to care what and where i go in the computer.I just want her to let me go any where on the computer without her saying don't go here don't go there.I miss the chat room so much i wish i could go to the chat room now.I wish she could just forget i was even living in the house so i could do and go where ever i feel like going.The chat room is safe and i can't get through to her and let her understand that it is safe.When i get someone who is good @ computers i am going to ask the person to delete that program she has on the computer then i will be back on the chat room.I am going to try to get some over to my house when my mom is not home and let them help me with the computer program.
    I'm sorry to inform you that kids with this type attitude, that invite strangers to their homes that they have met on the internet, are at risk of getting abducted, having terrible things done to their body by some pervert, and usually end up in a ditch somewhere.
    Think it won't happen to you?? Better think again, it happens to kids everyday.
    Your mother is trying to prevent this from happening to you.
    No where on the internet is safe.
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    Oct 3, 2007, 09:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by GlindaofOz
    This is why your mother put the program on the computer in the first place.

    You may think you don't want your mother to care but think about that for a second. Would you want her to completely not care about you? Not take you to the doctor when you are sick, buy food and cook meals for you, keep a neat house, pay bills or taxes, leave you alone by yourself all the time, her never being there when you need your mom. You only say you don't want her to care because you want to be in some chat room which was probably taking your attention away from school and your reality. Your mom sounds like a pretty awesome mom to me.
    If I have a great mom I am still not seeing it but when I talked to people on the chat room I talked to the chatters and the mods and admins there and they said to talk to my mom and tell her that it is safe and that if my mom wants to go to the website to check she can do that.I have talked to pervs on the chat but I think I can handle it I handle it more then one time when I was in the chat room.the only thing I am seeing with my mom is that I think she's way to over protective with where on the computer I go.I know that she's doesn't want me to get hurt but I would say it's my problem if I get myself in trouble.I know I am risking my life in the chat room but it's my problem to deal with and I agree with some people when they say that if there child was on the chat room that they were going to watch what they say I would hate that but @ least if my mom did that I would be able to go on the chat room.I know I would sneek on to the chat room even if she's not here to monitor me.I here people say that yeah she's a great mom.yeah I guess that's great that she's trying to protect me.:confused: :confused: :(
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    Oct 3, 2007, 09:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Clough
    And, there is also a very good likelihood that your mom knows where you have been on the computer as well as the Internet.

    I am sure that one of the things your mom is concerned about is who you might meet up with on the Internet.

    I am glad that you mother cares about you enough to put that kind of program on the computer. Be thankful. Not all parents are that caring about their children. We have some kids who are on this site way past a logical and reasonable time when they should have been in bed in order to get up for school the next morning. Their parents obviously don't have as much concern for them as your mother does for you.
    Um... uh... yeah
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    Oct 3, 2007, 10:04 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bre1028
    Um....uh..... yeah
    Clough is right hun. You should be happy that your mom cares so much.

    I know we can get mad at our parents sometimes, but the reason they do things that make us mad is because they love us and don't want anything to happen to us. Her reasoning more than likely isn't what you are doing on the internet, but more about who else is on the internet with you, you know what I mean? We can sometimes give out too much information without realizing it. A person in a chat room can seem friendly and can seem like they have good intentions, but we can never tell through a computer screen. All we can see is the words that are typed. Trust me, chat rooms are not all they are hyped up to be anymore. They are filled with spam and bots that can hurt your computer, and I'm sure you don't want to hurt your computer, you want to get use out of it, right?

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