I recently dated a guy for a month during a very busy time in his life. We had a great time together, spoke everyday and really got to know each other well. We both agreed that our relationship was slowly progressing to be closer and more exciting. I think I got emotionally invloved faster than he did, but thats ok because things take time. Basically after a month he asked me to end it. He told me he was confused because he now has some major life decisions to make and because he is not "flying high" about me yet, although he loves to spend time with me and admires me alot, he cannot continue to date me at this point in his life because he does not have the time to invest his emotions. He does not think that there is no potential between us, he is confused about whether the fact that he doesn't feel so excited about me is a function of our relationship which may just not be meant to be, or because its a function of his busyness and distraction. He forsaw things stagnating now that his life is getting even crazier, so he thought the best thing for both of us would be to end it. He hinted he may reevaluate it in some time, but apologized for saying that because it gives me no closure. He told me he wishes he could tell me that he just doesn't think it would work out between us, because he knows that would give me more closure. but he can't say that for sure, because he really doesn't know. I am left now confused and missing him.... and not wanting to date anyone else... I thought he was the one.
If anyone can explain his perspective to me more I would appreciate it...
Does anyone think that maybe that now that we've been totally out of contact for a week and a half he may be missing me, or do you think he just doesn't care?
What does all this mean?