had him havent seen him since

My son is 40was 7yrs. Ago dealer always been dependent on my mother she did while he pulled 7yrs . She helped him get a disability check before incarnation...he is out I live with daughter and granddaughter, he was homeless,they kicked humour nothing is never his fault he sleep in street ,hotel, but he's clean have OCD,he's hetevand he won't offer at dime and my daughter won't ask she thinks common sense should tell him to offer but the alcohol ,beer controls his thoughts,she. We are Christians trying to do the Christian thing he don't see himself as an alcoholic. I understand I was a former alcoholic and drug addict,he don't do drugs he's on parole he takes urine he dose the program, NA meeting have counselors ...its hurting me so and causing stress in ourvhome and in my and daughters relationship...she wants him gone,...