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Asked Dec 27, 2006, 10:47 PM — 4 Answers
Um, well, I like a guy. He says I'm pretty which is really sweet. And I like him a lot. I am willing to do anything for him. I like a lot of other guys but I don't know them well. And I know the are just crushes. So I know the first guy, I'll call him bob. Well, I know I should be with bob. He smiles at me all the time. But he's been with so many people I don't want to be just his next little fling. I want to go out with him. But I don't want it to end in like a week. What should I do? I mean, I'm not very good at talking to people. I don't want to get all embarrassed from trying to tell him what's up. Any advice?

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Dec 27, 2006, 11:16 PM
First is First.

Please let us all know, how old are you? I can not say anything else until we know your age.

Joe
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Oct 17, 2007, 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted by troubledmaiden2255
Um, well, I like a guy. He says I'm pretty which is really sweet. And I like him a lot. I am willing to do anything for him. I like a lot of other guys but I don't know them well. And I know the are just crushes. So I know the first guy, I'll call him bob. Well, I know I should be with bob. He smiles at me all the time. But he's been with so many people I don't want to be just his next little fling. I want to go out with him. But I don't want it to end in like a week. What should I do? I mean, I'm not very good at talking to people. I don't want to get all embarrassed from trying to tell him what's up. Any advice?
Look, if you are saying "he's sweet, I'd do anything for him" ....get yourself together! You shouldn't be thinking like this....take your time and realize that you deserve a GREAT guy who treats you right, not just a guy who smiles at you. Learn more about him before you jump into anything. Resist the urge to have your own little "fling"
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Oct 17, 2007, 09:52 AM
I tell guys that want to go out with me but seem like they just want someone, anyone, for a minute that I am not interested in a love them 'n leave them dead end relationship and I ain't NO sloppy seconds so if they want to be with me they best be thinking L0NG Term Relationship or go down the road for the dime a dozen ho's.
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Oct 31, 2007, 03:23 AM
First, you have to double check that he REALLY likes you.
Then ask his mates if he is making any moves
If he does, go out with him
But a bad guy with really bad perm records in a no no zone
If you really like him then go ahead
But he sounds like one of those pranksters that hook up with girls! You have to be strong and don't loose focus!
You should always date him first and get to know him better
Than decide to go for a second or third!
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