Guys are supposed to have dogs, sometimes reptiles, but three cats?
Whoa.
Is it my problem or does this guy have a problem?
And yes, he talks about his 3 cats a lot. He gets really defensive if I giggle or make stunned faces when he starts talking about them like people and tells me how much he misses them.
Ha. I just want your opinion.
Am I being a jerk? Or is 3 cats 1 guy just....weird?
hi new 2 this but here goes,
i have 3 dogs, 4 rabbits and a ferret, when i mentioned kitten 2 my family they all said NO, but hey we have a kitten called giz and everyone loves him, except the ferrret!
is this man a nice man don't judge untill you know him well, we all have a quirky side, so his is cats
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Muddy - do I need glasses or are there FOUR kitties being walked by this goofball? Two gray and two white? Or do I need glasses?
And as for this guy - absolutely NO. You are way out of his league to put it mildly. Plus I don't think you're all that interested in listening to every little nuance of his cats. I'm not a cat person. I'm strictly a dog person. Any cats I've owned were outside cats - not inside cats as I can't stand litter boxes!! Yuck. I can only imagine what this guy's house stinks like.
Loved your conversation on the phone. (Your end that is). Priceless.
Anywhozzils we're talking again. We both came to the understanding that his weird relationship with his cats is too much for me [really he's put tuna in his mouth and fed his cats...ISN'T THAT WEIRD?!]. Like I said we made up. We're just friends.
Eek. Some of you make me sound like a total b!tch, but hell at least I don't bullsh!t the truth. A man with three cats in a small apartment is weird. A man with a dog- heck that I like... unless it's a Shih Tzu...or a Poodle.. or a Chihuahua...just any small dogs [I myself dislike small dogs..especially pugs].
Heck at least I'm honest.
Sarah
My dogs take food out of my mouth
We share biscuits when I have a coffee, plus Brody always finished the last bit of coffee out of my mug.
My partner didn't go much on poodles before we got together, now he loves them, he would have an army of cats if I let him but I'm allergic.
I do think telling him to have sex with them was a bit much lol but anyone who knows you knows you speak your mind!
My opinions, for what they are worth:
A man having cats is not weird.
Anyone having three cats is not weird, or at least no more weird than having three dogs, especially like three great danes. I just look at that and think--so much kibble!
Anyone who feeds their pets (dog or cat) from their mouth is definitely weird.
Anyone who talks obsessively about their pets (or children) gets annoying after a while if you aren't into that subject. My sister has three cats and I only ask her about them when I'm trying to make her feel good. And I have two cats myself. I hardly ever talk about them except to brag, because I have taught them to shake hands, like dogs.
About snakes, I dated a guy who kept rattlesnakes. At first I thought it was cool, but then I decided he was truly weird. Lots of people have one boa or something like that and are not weird. I love snakes. But having 5 rattlesnakes in your bedroom is weird. Sorry. There's my line.
Lastly, I am so tired of hearing about "high maintenance" women. Sheesh. When my ex moved out, my workload went down by a third. I didn't have to cook a separate meal for him every night, wash and fold his laundry, help him find his wallet or briefcase several times a week, and, lastly, listen to him complain about work all the time (we are talking ~8 hours a week of complaining). I can't imagine any woman being as high maintanence as that.
Edit: Lastly, lastly, I had boyfriend in college who told me he would never marry me because he didn't think I would pick up his socks. He never asked me; he just said this. I was of course desperately in love and would have picked up his socks. I didn't see him for 20 years and then we got back in touch. He'd had four kids by three women, all of whom had left him. He lives alone now and picks up his own socks.
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