friend who's a guy

vball43 · #1 Jul 2, 2007, 09:21 AM

I like this guy in my class but he's also my best guy friend. How do I get his attention?

margarita_momma · Jul 2, 2007, 10:41 AM

You need to think about this very carefully before doing anything. I use to get little "crushes" on my guy friends when I was in school. I pursued one of them once and it ended up costing me the friendship. We dated for about 2 months and it ended shortly after that. He was one of my best friends and after the break-up, he didn't want to talk to me anymore. It really hurt. I don't want you to go through the same thing. So make sure if this is just a little crush or if you think it could be something worthwhile. Good luck

Clough · Jul 2, 2007, 11:13 AM

I would take heed of the answer above as it is based upon experience.

I'm just guessing on this because I don't know how long you have known him. But, if it hasn't been for very long, then maybe he will end up asking you to do something more along the lines of what you would want. You might think about keeping the close friendship up, waiting and see what happens. Just a thought.

vball43 · Jul 2, 2007, 05:09 PM

Thanks both of you u both gave great advice!!!!!



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