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I'm 20 years old, i was forced to drop out of school last april by my family after knowing that i was having a relationship with a guy who is only 2 yrs older then me(I have been with him for about 3 yrs alredy). Now i have no job and i have to wait till end of this year to continue my studies but that problem is that my family doesn't trust me any more,they won't let me out of the house or having any contact with my friends. i'm stuck at home, and since i have a lot of ciblings i was left to do all thier chors at home for punishment. I manage to contact my boyfriend which he told me that i should run away with him,i did not agree but i have run out of ideas.
Please do not run away. Anyone who asks you run away is not responsible or they are not thinking of the future. If you are under 18 this is not the way to go. Finish school and if he loves you he will wait. I know this because I had left my family for someone they disapproved of. I lost my family. My mother passed whoile I was gone and I never got to say good-bye. I was with the man for 4 years and ended up alone with two children. Please think about this.
You are 20 years old and in most places this makes you an adult. I don't know where you are (ie. country) but you should be old enough to do what you want. If you can wait, my advice would be to finish school then get out. It is difficult to do anything without at least a highschool education and it is even harder to get an education when you are on your own.
I guess I agree with VaGardener...she made good sense. Be patient.
my parents are mad at me cause i had sex with him,i droped out of school cause my parents want me to so that i can't contact him anymore.my family abuse me, they hit me many times if i make a mistake, yesterday i forgot to make tea for my dad, he was so mad that he kicked me three times on my stomach.
WOW, you should seek help NOW!
This should not be allowed in any house hold no matter your age, sex and culture.
Your parents are not giving their support, care and love to you.
You had sex, you are 20 years old, they are selfish in makin you drop out of school, this is your future. You are no slave.
This is serious, seek help immediatley. Go the Police. where do u come from?
That changes things completely! You need to get out of your house. Maybe your boyfriend has a good point about running away. Whatever you do, be safe and don't get pregnant. Get out of the house! Get help!
Well, you're 20 years old. You are no longer bound to your parents and certainly not obliged to live under their rules, especially if they're as unreasonable as they sound. I agree with your boyfriend that you should get out of their house. However I don't advocate "running away" per se. There's no reason why you can't continue with your studies and live on campus. College campuses typically have a wide variety of student housing options available. You should be eligible for plenty of financial assistance, especially once you establish yourself as independent from your parents. Be sure especially to make it known that they forced you to leave school, thereby indicating an unwillingness to provide any financial support for your education.
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