Does my friend not like me anymore?

Asked Dec 8, 2008, 02:28 PM — 10 Answers

I'm not sure what to do in this situation but I became really good friends with a girl this summer and we hung out a lot. I honestly have no idea what happened but lately we don't hang out. I just really miss hanging out with her. We had a lot in common and would always be laughing about something. Now every time she says she's going to come over she "forgets" and apologizes to me the next day. So what do I do? She knows I miss hanging out with her. Do I just cut my losses? I realize I can't make her want to hang out with me. Even my husband asks me why we don't hang out anymore and I honestly don't know what to tell him.

It wouldn't suck so bad, but I lost A LOT of friends after high school because most all of them moved away to go to school. Well, none of them came back. The ones that are still here only care about getting absolutely drunk every weekend and I'm not into that as much.

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frangipanis Posts: 1,027, Reputation: 374

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Dec 9, 2008, 09:38 AM

Yep, that makes sense. She's letting you down by being unreliable, which is annoying because your expectations are being constantly set up, then let down. I think most people hate that. If she's like that with you, chances are she's like that with everyone else, so try not to take it too personally. You don't have to like it though. Maybe you can do a bit of distancing and hope she gets the message that it's not how you treat your friends.

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