At school some (well lots) people are mean to me. I have a few friends but a majority of people just tease me or talk behind my back. There is one girl, she joined school just this year, at first I thought she was nice, but then she had her little group of friends and a few peple who i considered my closest friends went off with her, now they've changed its all boyfriends, fashion and gossip. i tyr too be fashionable but even when i happen to rip a tiny hole in my jumper or somthing people will rib me for weeks. I need advice.

destiny-hope

i am in the same position,everyone in my class hates me for no reason,but luckily I have made friends with these REALLY nice girls in the class next door.I might be left out in everything in my class,but having friends in a differnt class gives you hope.I try to be a optimist,it really helps & try to be nice to the bullies when they bully you,thats what i do,and if you cant find friends in your own class,try to find some in a different class.that's how i survive!!!

Confuzzledmonkey

well its more the boys in my class and the girl in the other class

nindzha

Teasing in school... it depends of how old are if this is childish teasing lets say till age of 14, than i cant really add anything.
If u are older as i presume...? than, we start at asking yourself why are the other friends teasing me for. People, let us say a group of people normally "attack" someone when he is diffrent like the others, the majority. Example: talks little, dresses diffrent, acts diffrent,looks diffrent...,etc. But this u all know.
What u should do is that u stand firmly at this situations and most important thing dont take it into your hearth. U should act like a solider, without feelings, tough, brave.
Than things will start to get better, u must take the reaseon for teasing u away from them and this is weaknes. Just dont do some Rambo , lol.
I hope u understaned what i ment to say.

Jesushelper76

Honestly this happens to a lot of people. It does make times difficult. What you need to know is that people who have big group of friends always needs to be with others to make themselves feel good. For people who do not have many friends or one really good friend I believe are better off. I know there are times or most of the times you want to fit in and be one of the crowd at the same time you know you do not want to be one of them because you know how it feels to have those things done to you.

There will always be people who want to put you down, who want to make you look bad, always try to cause trouble. Whether it be in school, work and even families sometimes. It is all in how you handle this, it is all in your reactions that will actually determine how you get through it.

I know exactly what your describing, because I went through it in school and now work. People are cruel. Remember you can not control how they act, but you can always control your reactions and if your going to let this people get under your skin or learn to overcome. By changing the way you think.

Joe