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Asked Jun 27, 2012, 07:10 PM — 1 Answer
Ive been reading all of the comments on here and its nice to hear it from a male point of view howeva i dnt quite agree with some of them. I personally dont think its acceptable mayb wen ur a lil kid around 16 i thought most men have it out of there systems by the time they mature. my situation is some what simliar to those of other women..ive kno my boyfriend for 6Years now we used to go out but he cheated on me bt in the last year after having another relationship and him having several we got back together..i never knew he had a problem until we started living together..he wil do it at every opportunity he can and it does make me feel sick to the point where i dont want to be with him anymore. I kno most of you think thats bein a bit harsh. Bt ive recently given birth to our first child and throughout my whole pregnacy he was watching it but i saw that as reasonable what with my growing belly but now im not so theres no excuse. Never mind the fact that his ex gf constantly called and txtd the one he cheated on me with all them years ago.ive spoken to him about it on several occasions and he told me he'd stop but its got to the point where hes foning me to see how long im guna b out for so he can have a quick tug and the worst thing of all is that he thinks im stupid its got that bad hes even swore on our babys life he wasnt watchin it until i brought up his history which stated he did and stil had the cheek to stand there and lie to me..im jus sick of it i asked him y he does it and he says he dnt kno and wen i ask him how would he like it if it was the other way round n he said he wouldnt so whats good for one is gud for another. Also the fact ive not long had a baby so im nt feelin great about my body and self hes stil doin it. It is effecting my sex life..he would rather do that then have sex and when we do which is rare i practically having to force myself on him..hes a lazy selfish lover only cares about his needs and is not affectionate at all so how am i ment to feel..if hes masturbated that day then thats his load for the day so cnt b bothered to make love to me n uses the excuse hes bin at wrk all day n is tierd bt not to tierd to have a wank..like him i also have a high sex drive n i stupid love him to pieces bt he isnt satisfying my needs and that can lead people to stray!!

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Jun 27, 2012, 07:13 PM
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Originally Posted by loz1234 View Post
Ive been reading all of the comments on here and its nice to hear it from a male point of view howeva i dnt quite agree with some of them. I personally dont think its acceptable mayb wen ur a lil kid around 16 i thought most men have it out of there systems by the time they mature. my situation is some what simliar to those of other women..ive kno my boyfriend for 6Years now we used to go out but he cheated on me bt in the last year after having another relationship and him having several we got back together..i never knew he had a problem until we started living together..he wil do it at every opportunity he can and it does make me feel sick to the point where i dont want to be with him anymore. I kno most of you think thats bein a bit harsh. Bt ive recently given birth to our first child and throughout my whole pregnacy he was watching it but i saw that as reasonable what with my growing belly but now im not so theres no excuse. Never mind the fact that his ex gf constantly called and txtd the one he cheated on me with all them years ago.ive spoken to him about it on several occasions and he told me he'd stop but its got to the point where hes foning me to see how long im guna b out for so he can have a quick tug and the worst thing of all is that he thinks im stupid its got that bad hes even swore on our babys life he wasnt watchin it until i brought up his history which stated he did and stil had the cheek to stand there and lie to me..im jus sick of it i asked him y he does it and he says he dnt kno and wen i ask him how would he like it if it was the other way round n he said he wouldnt so whats good for one is gud for another. Also the fact ive not long had a baby so im nt feelin great about my body and self hes stil doin it. It is effecting my sex life..he would rather do that then have sex and when we do which is rare i practically having to force myself on him..hes a lazy selfish lover only cares about his needs and is not affectionate at all so how am i ment to feel..if hes masturbated that day then thats his load for the day so cnt b bothered to make love to me n uses the excuse hes bin at wrk all day n is tierd bt not to tierd to have a wank..like him i also have a high sex drive n i stupid love him to pieces bt he isnt satisfying my needs and that can lead people to stray!!
How old are you? Are you able to spell words out? Site rules prohibit chat speak, and your post is extremely difficult to read as a result. I got a headache even trying.

First of, stop projecting responsibility for your own shortcomings on him....you have issues deal with them, don't blame him for them. If you need counseling, then get counseling....he isn't responsible to make you feel good about yourself...that comes from within.

I mean cripes...there isn't a guy out there that doesn't have his libido killed by someone nagging him...and blaming him for everything.

Would YOU be happy if HE was a clingy loser with numerous issues he was blaming you for? I don't think so.

And having very young kids around...its hard on the guy too.....and lets be honest here....as an adult....I'd be righteously indignant if my girlfriend tried to demand what I could and couldn't watch....You aren't his mom, or his boss....and that does go both ways...

Its you that has a problem...not him. He's got every right to look at porn if he so chooses, and doesn't need your permission.

I couldn't even make out half of what you said....and what I was able to read irritated me as an adult male with the attitude you put in the post.
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