My best friend of over 10 yrs abruptly stopped talking to me about a month ago now. The worst part is that I don't even know what I did. I have left multiple voice messages, texts, and emails. I think I deserve atleast an explanation.

My ex roommate is very manipulative & deceitful. I know she talked to her but you would think that my best friend would know better than to believe the lies of someone she barely knows over that of someone she has known half her life.

I try telling myself that obviously she wasn't that great of a friend after all & that she was self absorbed but at the same time I deeply miss her. I miss our friendship and I want to know how she is doing. Honestly it has hurt worse than any break up I have ever been through in my life with guys.

I wish she would talk to me but I am tired of pursuing her when she is openly ignoring me. Any advice?

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I just wanted to thank everyone again for the helpful insight. It gives me hope that we may be able to reconcile one day & if not I can make peace with myself and move forward as person & begin new friendships.