I hope someone can help me and give me some advice!
Let me explain my situation.
I had been with my partner for 3 years. We had often had problems as he would constantly put me down and talk about other girls which i couldn't deal with and i suffer from depression which he couldnt deal with.
Well 5 weeks ago my depression got so bad i was admitted to a mental hospital. I stayed in there for 2 weeks during which my partner stopped visiting me or ringing me and he wouldn't even pick up the phone when i called him.
He eventually told me he wanted to break up with me so i told him to pack his things and get out of my house. When i came home all his stuff was still there so i packed it all up and asked him when he would be round to pick it up, he messed me around a lot about when he would come to get it but eventually about a week later he came and took it all away.
He told me he still wanted to remain friends and that he needed a break from me because he needs to sort his life out (he has a lot of debt and is often nasty to people) and that he wasn't seeing anyone else he wants to remain single.
Shortly after this i realised he had used my cash card to steal all of my money out of my account. When i rang him to ask why he did it he didnt even seem to care. I'm not bothered about the money so much its more the fact that he let me down so badly.
Since he took his things he only contacted me if he wanted something doing for him like a parking permit collecting, or his letters taken to a friends house. He said he is too busy with work to see me or call me.
Well 3 days ago i found out he was in our local pub with a girl. I was so upset that i refused to answer his calls and for 2 days he kept ringing and texting me to say that she was just a friend and nothing was going on.
I agreed to speak to him again and he said that there was seriously nothing happening and he hasn't met anybody he just needs to sort himself out.
Shortly after i spoke to him a mutual friend told me he was holding hands with her and kissing her- i was devastated.
I rang him and asked him how could he lie to me and how could he have met someone so soon (we've only been split up for 3 weeks!) He told me it was nothing to do with me and that we'd split up now so it doesn't matter that he's with someone else but i dont understand the texts and voicemails he left saying she was just a friend.
Lots of friends have been saying he used to flirt with other women when i wasn't around but they didn't want to tell me and upset the apple cart so to speak.
I'm finding things so hard to deal with right now. I can't eat or sleep and i feel ridiculously hurt and betrayed. I don't want him back after all that he's done but i cant believe he's found someone so soon and is parading her round the local pub- places where he knows people will see and tell me and places where i could be. I loved him so much and he's let me down in the worst possible way- what do i do??
Sorry for the long rambling post!!