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bre1028 · Sep 28, 2007, 01:17 PM

I got really mad and I messed up my house cause I was mad and my mom came home and saw the place a mess.she said that I must be losing my mind,he said I was a danger to people and that I am crazy.cause the house was a mess I broke some stuff in the house.and I have tried killing myself before.and I just hope I don't live to and adult.:confused:

Jack2794 · Sep 28, 2007, 01:25 PM

You've tried killing yourself before?? Ok well first of all when we are angry we all do stupid things, only you know if you are a danger to others, would you ever consider hurting anyone else? Remember mums say all sorts of things when they are angry it doesn't mean they actually think your are crazy. If you are feeling suicidal maybe you need outside help? You've got your whole life ahead of you, look to the future after all the future is what you make it. You're not crazy so don't tell yourself you are

M0MMYX3 · Sep 28, 2007, 01:27 PM

Hi there,
No, you are not crazy!
You mentioned an earlier suicide attempt. Are you in counseling? A counselor might be able to suggest an anger management class, or maybe some sessions with your mom. I forgot if you said how old you were, you also mentioned a "he?" Is that your dad, or stepdad?
Just remember, when you feel that you are going to harm something (or someone), remember HALT. Hungry, Angry, Lonely, and Tired. If you are any one of those things (or all of them!), stop! Just stop what you are doing. If you can, go to your room, or someplace quiet, so that you can think. Call a friend, take a walk, play with your dog. (or get a dog, so that you will have something to take care of! and that will need a lot of walking.)
Go easy on yourself! I know, I am almost 50 (ouch!), and I am hardest on myself, I think. Then I have to ask myself, especially if it's regarding the kids, "Will this matter in 6 months?" If the answer is no, then I let it go.
Take care of yourself! Have a plan outlined with a friend, if you feel suicidal.
Hang in there!
m.

Gregisteredtrademark · Sep 28, 2007, 01:30 PM

Originally Posted by bre1028

i got really mad and i messed up my house cause i was mad and my mom came home and saw the place a mess.she said that i must be losing my mind,he said i was a danger to people and that i am crazy.cause the house was a mess i broke some stuff in the house.and i have tried killing myself b4.and i just hope i don't live to and adult.:confused:

I don't think your crazy. I think you may have some pent up anger you need an avenue release though. We think life sucks and there is no reason to go on. But I can tell you that time heals things. You may think you bring nothing to the table, but who knows you could be the one that cures cancer or the person who saves my life someday. Please talk to someone locally, like a councilor at school or at a local church or youth center. Don't give up, you will make something of yourself in the future!

Jack2794 · Sep 28, 2007, 01:40 PM

Sorry MOMMY X3 in fact the "you've got your whole life ahead of you" speech was not meant in the form of a lecture or speech it is purely a fact. I was purely shocked that this person felt so bad they have tried to kill themsleves! Anyway I agree with every other post BRE1028 IS NOT MAD!!

Jack2794 · Sep 28, 2007, 02:00 PM

MOMMY X3 Please read the site rules in regards to assigning people agree/disagree. The information I gave to bre1028 was not dangerous nor was it factually incorrect.

JamieLynn · Sep 28, 2007, 10:28 PM

Im sorry kid but I've read your other posts and you seem like your just after attention. I would urge everybody reading this to read her other posts she likes to make up a lot of stuff

bre1028 · Oct 3, 2007, 04:57 PM

Originally Posted by Jack2794

MOMMY X3 Please read the site rules in regards to assigning people agree/disagree. The information I gave to bre1028 was not dangerous nor was it factually incorrect.

Hi

bre1028 · Oct 3, 2007, 05:06 PM

Originally Posted by M0MMYX3

Hi there,
No, you are not crazy!
You mentioned an earlier suicide attempt. Are you in counseling? A counselor might be able to suggest an anger management class, or maybe some sessions with your mom. I forgot if you said how old you were, you also mentioned a "he?" Is that your dad, or stepdad?
Just remember, when you feel that you are going to harm something (or someone), remember HALT. Hungry, Angry, Lonely, and Tired. If you are any one of those things (or all of them!), stop! Just stop what you are doing. If you can, go to your room, or someplace quiet, so that you can think. Call a friend, take a walk, play with your dog. (or get a dog, so that you will have something to take care of!, and that will need a lot of walking.)
Go easy on yourself! I know, I am almost 50 (ouch!), and I am hardest on myself, I think. Then I have to ask myself, especially if it's regarding the kids, "Will this matter in 6 months?" If the answer is no, then I let it go.
Take care of yourself! Have a plan outlined with a friend, if you feel suicidal.
Hang in there!
m.

no I am not in counseling.I am 13.I don't know how long I can hang in there but I am trying.My mom said that she was going to talk to my teachers about moving in with them and I am just nervous that one of them will say I can move in I want to move in with one of my online friends.I don't think my mom would let me do that.I hope my mom was kidding when she said that she was going to ask one of my teachers.I have gone to school and told the school and my church what happened @ home and it just made everything worse.I regret telling my school and my church about what happened @ home.
:confused:

bre1028 · Oct 3, 2007, 05:10 PM

Originally Posted by JamieLynn

Im sorry kid but ive read your other posts and you seem like your just after attention. I would urge everybody reading this to read her other posts she likes to make up alot of stuff

JamieLynn say what you want but stop turning people against me just because you don't believe me OK!you believe what you want!What your telling people is really mean!can you be a little nicer? :mad:

bre1028 · Oct 3, 2007, 05:20 PM

Originally Posted by Gregisteredtrademark

I don't think your crazy. I think you may have some pent up anger you need an avenue release though. We think life sucks and there is no reason to go on. But I can tell you that time heals things. You may think you bring nothing to the table, but who knows you could be the one that cures cancer or the person who saves my life someday. Please talk to someone locally, like a councilor at school or at a local church or youth center. Don't give up, you will make something of yourself in the future!

I have talked to a councilor @ my school and that didn't help because when I got home there's always a problem and my grandma and my mom get mad @ me when I do that so I don't trust adults any more.I only have trust in one of my friends and I only have a little trust with one of my friends. I don't trust my other friends.

bre1028 · Oct 3, 2007, 05:24 PM

Originally Posted by bre1028

no i am not in counseling.i am 13.I don't know how long i can hang in there but i am trying.My mom said that she was going to talk to my teachers about moving in with them and i am just nervous that one of them will say i can move in i want to move in with one of my online friends.i don't think my mom would let me do that.i hope my mom was kidding when she said that she was going to ask one of my teachers.I have gone to school and told the school and my church what happend @ home and it just made everything worse.I regret telling my school and my church about what happend @ home.
:confused:

I have gone to counseling when I was 7 it wasn't for trying to kill myself.

bre1028 · Oct 3, 2007, 05:31 PM

Originally Posted by Jack2794

you've tried killing yourself before??????????Ok well first of all when we are angry we all do stupid things, only you know if you are a danger to others, would you ever consider hurting anyone else? Remember mums say all sorts of things when they are angry it dosn't mean they actually think your are crazy. If you are feeling suicidal maybe you need outside help? You've got your whole life ahead of you, look to the future afterall the future is what you make it. Youre not crazy so dont tell yourself you are

Yes jack2794 I have tried killing myself.

luz garica · Oct 3, 2007, 05:38 PM

Originally Posted by bre1028

i got really mad and i messed up my house cause i was mad and my mom came home and saw the place a mess.she said that i must be losing my mind,he said i was a danger to people and that i am crazy.cause the house was a mess i broke some stuff in the house.and i have tried killing myself b4.and i just hope i don't live to and adult.:confused:

Don't feel bad about people said and don't matter if your mother life is perfect if you want to so start doing other thing go outside enjoy your time forget about everybody and never try to kill yourself anymore god give us live god is the only one who can keep your live not you so don't do anymore and trying to be better and don't break stuff because you are angry and your are no crazy maeby he said that because he were angry but that doesn't mean you are .

Punkergurl13 · Oct 3, 2007, 05:39 PM

Originally Posted by bre1028

i got really mad and i messed up my house cause i was mad and my mom came home and saw the place a mess.she said that i must be losing my mind,he said i was a danger to people and that i am crazy.cause the house was a mess i broke some stuff in the house.and i have tried killing myself b4.and i just hope i don't live to and adult.:confused:

Hey, the names meg. I use to have the same problem. And I am telling you now, that if it weren't for the secret I am fixing to tell you I myself would most likely either A) be on pills or B) be 10 ft under. The secret? I turned to a journal. That's right! I couldn't take it any more people not listening, so I just opened a journal and wrote... mostly poems. But anyway now because of this I am no longer depressed and you know what? I have at least 10 poems published! (yes it is actually hard getting the stupid things published) and I am even writing my 4th novel! So honestly... what would you like? Something that you can "talk" too , and it doesn't actually talk back or A parent who seems to not understand?

-meg

JamieLynn · Oct 4, 2007, 06:53 AM

I don't mean to be mean kid but when you say in another post that your mother beats you and you told your school and they did nothing I know your lying. The school would have called child services no matter what. Its not my fault you have a big imagination. First you write in a post, "how do i make my mom go crazy" then you write "am i crazy" grow up kid

Jack2794 · Oct 4, 2007, 09:20 AM

bre1028 it sounds as though you find it hard to trust people especially adults and only one of you're friends. Do you not trust people very easily because of you're mum and grandma shout at you a lot?

bre1028 · Oct 4, 2007, 01:09 PM

Originally Posted by JamieLynn

I dont mean to be mean kid but when you say in another post that your mother beats you and you told your school and they did nothing i know your lying. The school would have called child services no matter what. Its not my fault you have a big imagination. First you write in a post, "how do i make my mom go crazy" then you write "am i crazy" grow up kid

I am not lying !And since you don't believe me you just do that OK Jamielynn. If you want Jamielynn go ask my school!Jamielynn I have,gone to the child services there the one who left my mom a letter @ my house.!. My daddy didn't know about what was going on he didn't even know that my mom was doing that to me. e found out from my friends mother who called him and told him what was going on.And my daddy asked me and I explained to him what was going on.

bre1028 · Oct 4, 2007, 01:14 PM

Originally Posted by Jack2794

bre1028 it sounds as though you find it hard to trust people especially adults and only one of you're friends. Do you not trust people very easily because of you're mum and grandma shout at you alot?

It's not the shouting.It's only because when I tell my mom or grandma anything they always tell each other what I have told them.I am never going to trust an adult or any person but one of my friends.

Jack2794 · Oct 4, 2007, 01:29 PM

So basically you don't trust anyone becaue whenever you have told your Mum (mom) or your grandma something they tell each other. So can you not trustany mebers of your family e.g.. Aunty uncle etc.