my son and his grilfriend will not let me see my grandson she is using that baby on the family and so is he I am bipolar raised my son on my own we were so thight this gril calls me a frick and ever thing else my son lets this go on she is killing my sons health he looks so bad she sits at home and gives orders like she is the only and best mom in the world what is this all about?:

Anu_b

Hello dear,
You only can win your son's heart by showing lots of affection. Try to ignor that girl's behaviour and don't react. You interact with your son very politely and calmly.Just show you are unaffected with that girl's presence. Never interact / interrupt when they are talking. Never give your advice to that girl even if you don't like her . Try to show that u r started liking that girl. Show most of your favour towards to that girl insted of your son. These are common hidden family politics. make all the new friends who are enemy of that girl.Invite them on dinner or go to their house and give them gifts. Also develop the friendship of all the relatives/friends of that girl. Spreat all the things that she is doing at your home with your son.Remember you can defet her only by taking all the help of her relatives and friends. Society pressure is a big pressure my dear.. and call her all the relative and friends to your house and be a very good friend to them. Never fight with the girl. Be very courtious with her.Wait for the opportunity to really pull her down. till the time u have to bear her any how. That's how the policy works dear..
Cheerssss!!!!! pull up your socks ....

supermommmy

The best theing you can do is just leave them alone. You have to realize that your son is a grow man who has made his own family. There is nothing you can do! Get over it! If your son loves her he will never choose you over her. You are no longer the woman in his life. So move on and respect his decisions or he will hate you for the rest of his life.