need some tips from more experienced people

nadyatk · #1 Feb 6, 2007, 07:49 AM

Hi there,

after a few years of studying and travelling abroad as an au-pair in Germany and UK alltogether 3 years, I'm about to start a 'proper job' (hopefully) in my feeld of study (Finance/Accounting).

The problem is- I'm ashamed to admit that am a bit scared. I know I'm clever and everything i've done by now (au-pairing and some teaching when younger) I did quite well, but still.... I just don't want to appear dumm, but i think it's inevitable considering my lack of experience.

What do you think I should do, how can I overcome it!

TheSavage · Feb 6, 2007, 01:05 PM

Do you think the folks you will be working with started out experienced?
They started out in the same shoes you where wearing 3 years ago, and over those 3 years you might not have gained much in your major but look at the world view you can bring to the party.
What should you do? Face up to starting at the bottom like all but bosses kids]
do, Pay attention and do not sweat the details.
A quote from Dune that I love and you might also is
"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."

gypsy456 · Apr 5, 2007, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by nadyatk

Hi there,

after a few years of studying and travelling abroad as an au-pair in Germany and UK alltogether 3 years, I'm about to start a 'proper job' (hopefully) in my feeld of study (Finance/Accounting).

The problem is- I'm ashamed to admit that am a bit scared. I know I'm clever and everything i've done by now (au-pairing and some teaching when younger) I did quite well, but still.... I just don't want to appear dumm, but i think it's inevitable considering my lack of experience.

What do you think I should do, how can I overcome it!

Being dumb has nothing to do with not having experience....
Experience you gain only in life by doing things, failing at it, doing even more and trying... it's called life.
It is perfectly ok to be scared... every person is scared for new things.
You are only human.

You have traveled and that in itself is an incredible experience.

Fear for the unknown is often the biggest fear.

I think you will be just fine.

good luck !

nadyatk · Apr 27, 2007, 10:44 AM

Thank you guys so much! Ofcurse you're both right- it's nice that there are people out there who are ready to help and reasure. It's funny how we get insecure sometimes

Thanks again



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