We can get you into some general settings, but it's best to not mess around with them unless you know what they do
That said:
open up the command prompt (most versions of windows, it's start > run > cmd (or command)
type ipconfig /all
Under where it says "Default Gateway", type that number into the address bar on your browser. Generally it will be something like "192.168.1.1" or 192.168.0.1"
This should bring up a login page. If it doesn't try it with http:// in front, like this:
http://192.168.1.1/
If you haven't changed the password on the router, the username and password are usually one of the following:
Username: admin, administrator, root, user, or leave blank
Password: admin, administratos, root, password, or leave blank
I've seen a lot where the username and pass were both admin, and where the username is administrator and password is blank. I'd start with those two.