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| Originally Posted by NeedKarma There are no "spells" or magic. Life is what you make it. |
I disagree with the first sentence, but agree with the second. Magick is all around us, but love spells are no mastery. Love spells are a kind of (sorry, no better term) Jedi mind trick, and only work on the weak minded. Believe me, you're better off with a smart, empowered companion who would shrug off such manipulations and slap you silly for trying it.

Empowered people, especially empowered women, are much more fun to be around.
The better magick is one which helps you feel that you can stand firmly in your own center of integrity. Building a small home altar might help with this. Just use your imagination--trust your instincts as to what to put on it. That's part of the magick--learning to trust yourself. But whatever you do, honor the work and honor yourself by taking it seriously. Then you can give the Goddess the intention that you are asking Her to teach you the things you will need to be a good partner for someone.
Blessings, and happy hunting!
Alder
P.S. Don't be afraid to tell her you're nervous about asking her out. I've always found girls love a guy who knows how to share his feelings.
P.P.S. Worst case scenario, she says no. Consider that the universe teaching you something, and say to the universe, "Ok, lesson learned. Now I know I am strong enough to still exist even if someone I like doesn't like me back. Now reward me by sending me someone cool."
P.P.P.S. If a girl breaks your heart, or for some other reason someone makes you angry, never, never, never do magick to hurt them or to get even, K?