| thanks so much everyone for their input... i know the situation does suck...but i am pretty positive it'll work out , just stressed in the meantime. as for the room-mate situation, i have thought of this- even put an ad in for a room-mate but honestly, i have an 8year old boy and the thought of having a stranger in the house, using the same bathroom and kitchen was a little unnerving, although after interviewing a couple people (women, i know it's sexist, but i'm sure you all understand!) i realized that the house isn't really big enough for a room-mate to feel comfortable- it's a 2.5 bedroom bungalow. luckily, my r.e agent is really great and helpful so i think it'll sell soon... i'm just not sure what to do about my payments in the meantime- if i pay the mortgage, the car, oil, gas, etc don't get paid...and here in ny it is cold! i am not eligible for state help- i guess at this point in time everyone hurting financially. i just wasn't sure if there was a way to compensate for the monthly payments... but i do appreciate everyone's input because it was helpful and kind... |