running away

joeysgirl · #1 Apr 30, 2007, 08:53 AM

what would you do if a mom told her daughter that she doesnt even want to see her or really dont even want to talk to her? so know she has bags packed and shes running away to her boyfriends house.

startover22 · Apr 30, 2007, 09:20 AM

I would ask if her mother was a good mom. If she is then I would secretly tell her mom everything. This is not good that she is going to her boyfriends house, not good at all. I have been there and done that when I was 15, tell her it is not a good idea. If you have to, tell your parents so they can get involved and maybe have her over at your house instead till all this settles. Your choice but I would urge her to talk to an adult that she can trust to help her get through all of this. You sound like you are worried. I hope you can tell someone about this. Running away is just the start of many problems. Things that you shouldn't even know yet. Go talk to someone, PLEASE!!

joeysgirl · Apr 30, 2007, 09:26 AM

well shes 15 to why would it be bad if she goes to her boyfriends house he's 14. Her mom said that she didnt want to look at her or talk to her until her class ring was found and her moms ring was found. (note:her moms class ring and her moms moms ring)...

startover22 · Apr 30, 2007, 09:44 AM

Did she steal the rings? Why is she so upset about it?

Synnen · Apr 30, 2007, 09:48 AM

So...this girl is running away because her mom is mad because something special to her mom was lost?

Sounds to me like the mom is upset, and has good reason. Sounds to me like the girl is a chicken who can't face up to SOMETHING, whether it was losing the rings, or stealing them. Sounds to me like this little girl has some growing up to do before she can really move out.

Moving out to a boyfriend's house is dumb anyway. If you're going to run away, make it either to another relative or do it on your own. Moving in with your boyfriend is just asking for something ELSE stupid: A teenage pregnancy.

AKaeTrue · Apr 30, 2007, 10:06 AM

Almost sounds like the mother suspects that her daughter or one of her daughter's friends took her rings.
She's probably very up-set and wants them back.
If this is the case, the mother has a good reason to be upset.

The daughter needs to return the rings to her mother, get them back from who ever has them,
or come clean about what happened to the rings if there is no way of getting them back.

I am a mother and I'd be very upset if my daughter or her friends stole from me,
but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't love her anymore or want her gone for good...

If my daughter owned up to what happened to them,
I'd find it in my heart to forgive her...most mothers would :-)

Kae

joeysgirl · May 4, 2007, 07:20 AM

so i'm to chicken to tell my mom that kayla harmon stole her rings from me during my b-day party....well i already have told her but she dont believe me....so yea what now????also where else am i to go cus my dad hits me...my mom hates me know and i dont have any family thatwants anything to do with me....so tell me where to go....???

joeysgirl · May 4, 2007, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by startover22

Did she steal the rings? Why is she so upset about it?

she took them to wear....one was her moms then the other is her grandmas and she lost her grandmas ring thats the only thing she has left of hers.

AKaeTrue · May 4, 2007, 02:53 PM

I don't understand how your friend stole your mothers rings from you...
Did you have your mothers rings?

If you know WHO took the rings, you should get back the ring that has not been lost and then return it to your mother.
Have you returned the ring that wasn't lost?
If not, why?

You and Kayla Harmon should also try to back track and make a serious effort to find the lost ring so that it too can be returned to your mother.

Just a little hint - Mothers can tell if their kids aren't telling 100% truth.
We just know our kids like that...
So with that said, you should tell her the truth, ALL OF THE TRUTH,
and work on making things right with her.

She is probably saddened and upset about the disappearance of these sentimental rings.
You must understand that, right?



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