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I have a 20 yr old daughter, Jennifer who 5 days ago disappeared, left everything in her apartment, quit her job and is helping her troubled fiance hide from the cops. I don't know where she is and if I should call the cops or get involved. She could be in trouble. She is very naive and trusting not real street smart. My husband says to leave her alone, but as a mother it is very hard to do that. Has anybody had to deal with this situation before? I live in Denver Colorado
Look at it this way, the cops are already looking for her. So putting out a missing persons report is probably not going to help any.
She is an adult and legally able to make her own decisions, even if they are bad ones. The best you can do is put the word out to whatever friends of hers or her fiance's that you know that you just want to know she is safe and that you want to help anyway you can.
The police are already looking for him, but they may not be looking for her. If you report her missing, they will look for her also. This may put her in a position of helping a criminal. You are a mother, do what your heart tells you to do. If it makes you feel better, do it. You may save her from something worse.
The cops are looking for my daughter's fiance (V) because he was jailed last May for assault with a deadly weapon, he put a knife through an arm of a friend luckily his friend lived through it. He has anger issues. 1 month earlier he almost cut off my daughter's hand with a knife, there was a restraint order on him not to get near my daughter, but she is so forgiving and naive that she got it released so she could visit him in jail.
This guy is bipolar and manic depressive, with mulitple personalities, he thinks he is a vampire. He has been on a work release program and my daughter got him a job and picked him up from the jail and took him to his job. ( 2 months left of his work release) and he says...I would rather die then stay in this jail. so he quit his job and just walked away from jail.
I believe that he is suicidal and has my daughter with him. I have called the police Dept. but they said there is nothing they can do at this point. They are looking for him though.
It is hard to just do nothing.
I am so sorry for you, did he have a probation officer? Possibly you could talk to him and by them knowing your daughter is with him they could look for her also. If he was on work release he should have one. If so, they would be more apt to look for him than the police. Unfortunately, everyone in law enforcement is so busy, small potatoes are left out. I cannot imagine just waiting.
The bank can not give you any information unless you are on the account. Check her mail at her appt, she may have a credit card or as J9 said debit card and you can watch for the statement.
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