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I have a 20 yr old daughter, Jennifer who 5 days ago disappeared, left everything in her apartment, quit her job and is helping her troubled fiance hide from the cops. I don't know where she is and if I should call the cops or get involved. She could be in trouble. She is very naive and trusting not real street smart. My husband says to leave her alone, but as a mother it is very hard to do that. Has anybody had to deal with this situation before? I live in Denver Colorado

DJ

J_9

So, if she does end up going through the police, that would be a lead they could follow up on?

K_3

Yes. I would contact his probation officer first. A probation officer actually has more rights than a police officer when one is on probation. He does not need a warrant if he has an idea where he is. He can just barge in where a police officer has to have a warrant. Often times police will take a probation officer with him for that reason. I am sure if he was on work release he has a probation officer.

J_9

It was just a thought DJ. No need to post a disagree. We are only trying to help.

ScottGem

DJ,
First, may I suggest checking out this post about how to use the comments feature:
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/feedbac...ure-24951.html

Second, I do feel for you and appreciate your situation. But I fear there is little you can do at this point. Your daughter has made her choice, as bad as it may be. The only thing you can do is try to let her know that no matter what, you still love her and want to help and be supportive.

The police are looking for the fiancee. If they find him and your daughter is not with him, she may come home at that point. If she is with him, they will probably bring her in too.

K_3

I don't think she meant to disagree, maybe didn't realize it would put a blue mark on your rep, she may need to take it back.

J_9

Ah, she was new and did not know how it worked. No problem. She can't take it back, but as I said, no prob.