Looking for my biological father,

Kleid · #1 Jun 2, 2007, 04:47 AM

Ok so in this last couple of weeks I've been looking for my real dad over the internet
and found no luck. His name is Khalid Balasha, i don't know if that is the right spelling though. My parents separated before i was born so i never saw him. My mom who is 43 years old now said they met in her office in the Philippines.She also said that my dad used to study there too. Im not really sure where he is from beause my aunt said that he was from Jordan, but my grandmother said he was from Kuwait. I don't want to ask my mom about this because she will get too emotional and cry again. I don' t want to see my mother crying that's why i never mention my biological father to her. So please can anyone help me find him, im 19 years old now and i really like to meet my real father. By the way his only picture was lost when i was in the 4th grade. Is there a hope for me? Can i still find him?

Sorry for my bad english.

tawny · Aug 3, 2007, 10:46 AM

I know its really hard, but you need to speak to your mom and tell her how you really feel.
The sooner you do it the better, as the void you feel will only get stronger.

Another thing you can also do is maybe go to the school that your mother studied in and see if they have any year book or information about your dad in the system.

all the best

Kleid · Aug 5, 2007, 10:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tawny

I know its really hard, but you need to speak to your mom and tell her how you really feel.
The sooner you do it the better, as the void you feel will only get stronger.

Another thing you can also do is maybe go to the school that your mother studied in and see if they have any year book or information about your dad in the system.

all the best

i was talking with my mom one time, she was looking for my birth certificate. When she found it i just asked her "hey mom do you have any document about my dad you know birth certificate and stuff", but she don't have one. By the way his name is not Khalid its Khalil,Khalel,Kalil or something i don't really know the spelling. She mentioned what college my father went to, the thing is im not in my home country. First thing that i would do when i come back is ask something about him in his school.



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