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My friend likes my boyfriend

Asked May 31, 2010, 04:15 AM — 16 Answers
My friend said to me that she liked my boyfriend. I thought she was joking.I didn't worry about it until the teacher moved my friend next to him then I started to worry.thery talk a lot and I got my other friend to spy on them.my fried said she is going to make a plan to break me and him up.
What should I do

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May 31, 2010, 05:45 AM
She doesn't sound like a very good friend. You can always be honest with your boyfriend about your concerns, but the botton line is whether you trust your boyfriend.

Finally, get some new friends. Hopefully not all your friends are like her.
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May 31, 2010, 07:03 AM


Why don't you just talk to them, as maybe they are just friends, who sit next to each other in class, and you are just jealous.
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May 31, 2010, 08:57 AM
I am not jealous.my friend that spys on then tells me that they talk all the time and she kissed him on the shoulder
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May 31, 2010, 09:34 AM
You can guess it just from the behavior of your boyfriend. Think you should not talk to them about this matter. Sometimes we have no feelings but after being pointed out we start to have those feelings. May be they are just friends but if you talk to them they may start thinking for each other
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May 31, 2010, 09:34 AM
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i am not jealous.my friend that spys on then tells me that they talk all the time and she kissed him on the shoulder
Well then I guess it's time to move on. It doesn't sound like this young man is a very loyal fellow, especially in light of your other posts.

Maybe your friend also loves cute guys with blue eyes. It seems there's a shortage of them in your school otherwise why hang on to this little boy?
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May 31, 2010, 09:44 AM


What do you need spies for if your not jealous, or maybe insecure, and that's exactly what your other posts are saying.

Handle your business on your own or dump the guy.
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May 31, 2010, 01:28 PM
Yep they are all true!
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May 31, 2010, 01:41 PM
There are no other cute boys and I don't want to be lonley.cheek out my other question my boyriend looks at girls in a better way than he looks at me.
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May 31, 2010, 03:40 PM
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There are no other cute boys and I don't want to be lonley.cheek out my other question my boyriend looks at girls in a better way than he looks at me.
You're 11 years old. Your boyfriend will look at other girls because he's a child and children don't have any concept of relationships with the opposite sex. You're both children and therefore you will act childish. That's what your "boyfriend" is doing.

The fact that you are only dating him because he's cute and has blue eyes, that's reason enough for you to be single. You're too young to be in a relationship.

I have to wonder where your parents are. If they're allowing you to date at your age then there's something seriously wrong in your household. Children shouldn't date.

Concentrate on school, learn to write better, pay attention in class, leave the boys alone for now, there's plenty of time for all that drama later.
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