Should I ask her out?

simplebowman · #1 Apr 26, 2008, 09:54 PM

Okay, so I'm a guy and theres this girl in my class. I wanna go out with her but I'm afraid that she'll say no. It would be akward in class. But if I don't take the chance pretty soon, I might never get to ask her.

Clough · Apr 26, 2008, 11:46 PM

Are there any groups that you might be able to get involved in that she is in also? If you were to join one of them, it might give the two of you a chance to get to know one another a little better and make asking her out easier for you to do. Just a thought for you...

volta-rewind · May 1, 2008, 02:36 PM

Hmm. .
well has she given you any signs that she may like you?
If not, she may just be shy.

it's frightening not knowing isn't it?
but sometimes you have to take that risk.
It might turn out good, you'll never know.

Clough · May 1, 2008, 10:06 PM

Yes, you will never know until you try. You only fail if you fail to try!

kp2171 · May 1, 2008, 10:13 PM

when im on my deathbed i wont care about the crap i tried and failed at... itll be the things i failed to try thatll pi$$ me off.

seriously.

worst case scenario? she denies you and you get to stop wondering. case closed.

dont make me beg. im a guy, and its not pretty when a guy begs. so just take a leap and if it doesnt pan out... you took the leap. if you fall on your face, so what?

honestly... what comes from her rejecting you? you are no worse of than before... except the wondering is gone. but what if she responds in kind?

theres still no guarantee... but seriously... in a man or a woman, theres nothing sexier than confidence.

so cowboy up and take a shot.

if it doesnt work out... well... welcome to humanity. turns out you are mortal. so what?

do it.

thegreatestviz · May 1, 2008, 10:15 PM

well many solutions
find out about her and what she likes..
get to know her...dont just ask her out as a stranger
talk to her and if u think u have some chances go 4 it
dont rush
take is easy and smooth...if u like her you may tell her but be careful what you say...since girls make visual impression in about 20 seconds and in 3 minutes of talking they know what you are looking for.
so watch it.
tc
all de best
adios
Viz

P.S.-if u get her..there is nothing like it....if u dont ..she was never urs..



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