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I didnt have a dad when I was small. My first 4 years I had a rough time with my mom. Afterwards, my dad came back. Ever since then they had been going on and off. And now, its coming close to my birthday. My dad has hit me, and he has verbaly abused me. Everyday. Oh, your fat. Your ugly. Stupid. I am so sick of it. I feel like im the only one in the world who has this crappy dad. I know, im not the only one. But it sure as hell feels like it when im getting yelled at from my dad. Im not fat, or ugly. Or stupid. I have a gpa of 3.5. I've gotten accepted into programs that would PAY for my college. And still, he rants on about me. Someone. Please. Tell me you know what im going through.
I will assume that your mother is not helping you in this situation,so is there a councelor or teacher at your school you can talk to?Your dad has a problem and I doubt he would listen to any one about seekig help for himself.None of this is your fault and I suspect you'll be leaving for college soon.For now you should talk to a trustd adult about your problem!Good Luck I hope I've helped.
Deprived, it must be painful to feel ridiculed by your father when he's supposed to love you unconditionally. Your father sounds like a person who has difficulty expressing loving, caring thoughts and finds it much easier to give criticism. Talk to your dad, tell him that when he calls you names and talks to you the way he does, it makes you feel really bad. If he doesn't stop abusing you, speak to your school counselor.
Hi, deprived,
I am so sorry to read this. Your Dad is very abusive, and if your Mom is afraid of him, she won't be any help. That's why they are "on and off" as you say.
Others suggested talking with a counselor, which is good advice.
Here is a link:
Personally, I would call the Child Abuse organization in your local area. There are phone numbers in your local phone book, or you can look up your state in the above link.
Call a toll-free number and talk with a Professional about it. You do NOT have to put up with Child Abuse from your Father!
He sounds very abusive, and I also wonder if he drinks a lot....maybe not.
Please call a toll-free number, and talk with someone. They can offer you a whole lot of help. I do wish the best of luck.
all those names your father calls you and stuff he says is probably really how he feels about himself maybe thats things his father said to him and he feels like hes saying it back to his father when he says it to you. Whatever the cause its not your fault and since he probably wont seek any couseling I think you should do as these people have said and make some steps to help yourself. I hope you can get out and leave to college soon.
Im sorry to hear that your father has been treating you like this, as you know this is wrong, and im very pleased that at least you know that it is not true.
It sounds like your father has got an anger issue that needs sorting out ASAP, you will probley find that he feels very low about himself or has got issue's that don't seem to be going away, our has major problems in his own life.... Its very important that you know that non of the stuff he is saying to you is true !!! If he kicks off at you try and walk away to not be in the same room as him and just ignor him till he can act like the adult he is ment to be.
And non of this you are to blame for, he has got issue's not you.
Go seek that advice from teachers or people in your school that you can talk with... I would also go as far as telling your mother too book your father into the doctors and tell them what he has been acting like.
Please keep your head up and be strong, because as a minor you must be going over hell with all thats going on.
I don't have much to add to all the superb advice you've received from others, but I did want you to know that I hated my father too (he is now deceased), and for similar reasons to your own. So I understand what you're going through, and you are definitely not alone! Many people have or have had troubles with their parents like this. Please seek outside help and keep us updated on how you're doing.
I don't have much to add to all the superb advice you've received from others, but I did want you to know that I hated my father too (he is now deceased), and for similar reasons to your own. So I understand what you're going through, and you are definitely not alone! Many people have or have had troubles with their parents like this. Please seek outside help and keep us updated on how you're doing.
hi its good you know these things he says about you are not true just ignore him like other people said thats what i did just used to ignore him until he gave up.
Remember - Its NOT your fault hes the one with the problem not you
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