I need help bad, he treat me so bad. He donot spend time with me.

I was in that same position! But if he treats you bad, even though you love them, you should get rid of them ! I no its hard to get rid of the 1 you love! But there will be someone else willing to love you in the future and they will want to be with you and they will treat you like you want to be treated (with full respect)

Ask Yourself this...

Do you want to be with someone that makes you unhappy?

Or..

Do you want to be with the person that makes you smile and laugh?

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Originally Posted by patricia kemp

I need help bad, he treat me so bad. He donot spend time with me.

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It's better to be alone and happy then to be with someone and be miserable. If he doesn't appreciate you then you are not appreciating yourself. You must start to realize that you have value and that others around you must meet you standards for what you set for yourself and you can not budge. If your boyfriend or anyone else does not meet your standards then you need to leave those people out of your life.

If he treats you bad he isn't worth it... I learned a while ago that people who treat me like c**p then they are not going to be in my life anymore.
Everyone deserves respect,and if he is treating you bad,leave.be alone for a while to get your head straight,then find someone who you can make happy.. and who will make you happy.

Just think of it this way, you definitely deserve someone better. I know that you love this guy very much - I'm experiencing the same thing as you are, but life is like that. Don't stay in a place that's not meant for you because if you do, you might miss something that's perfect for you...