So I have had this problem since I was first pregnant. My son is now 2 months and and im not over it. My boyfriend and babies father started a new job which is good but he works with this girl who I cant stand and I dont even know her. A year ago my boyfriend tried to kill himself and I found him. I think that I just havent forgiven him and I dont trust him and Im jealous because this girl is really pretty and rich and . Also she is well known in our town so her name gets brought up a lot and I wanna flip out!!! He is working with her all alone as I write this and everytime he works with her I am a big to him...I dont think he is cheatin but at the same time I am obsessed with this. I dream about them being together. I have searched for her on myspace and facebook...WHY??? I cry about it drink over and obsess about it. I went to his work when I was prego and harassed her. Since then I have talked to her face to face and we were cool but still I want to beat her up! I need help because it is ruining our relationship I cant believe he puts up with me. I am too embarrassed to tell my therapist. Do I need meds or somethin? Help asap Thankz

Mumu

you mean medicine ? , nooo

baby it's normal to feel jealousy sometimes from that gurl, cuz she with ur bf all the time, but be sure IF ur bf Loves you he'll never cheatn' you, take it easy like this girl as a work friend; he must talk to her he must do somthing in work domain ..

i dont know if i helpd you matter fact my english sucks; ;]

Choux

You need to grow up, and the therapist is there to help you!!!

Tell the therapist all about your behavior and talk about it. Right now, you are totally run by your negative emotions-that makes you sick and those around you suffer. Adults make decisions to behave based on assessing a situation and getting the facts.

Make use of this great resource, the therapist, your best friend right now.